What type of intimacy are your referring to? The idiots 1 and 2 seem to think its just romantic/sexual, and clearly lack an understanding of what the word intimacy means and encompasses. I would recommend figuring out just what kind of intimacy you want even before asking this sort of question. The type of intimacy you are seeking will determine the mechanism and approach you should use to obtain it. It also is difficult to have intimacy with others, if you do not know what you want from yourself first.
I've had a number of non-romantic close friendships before, which involved a lot of emotional intimacy (sharing everything, mutual support, openness, vulnerability with one another) and some physical intimacy (lots of hugs, friendly kisses etc). I guess I just miss those close close friendships that were intimate in nature and had few boundaries.
@3: I think OP was asking for a solution to the problem, not more questions that further complicate his/her decision. At least 1 and 2 answered the question...fucking idiot...
A willingness to spend money often helps...
ReplyDeleteThere are "cuddle clubs" locally, IIRC...non-sexual touching. Mind you, some participants may be of questionable hygiene.
ReplyDeleteWhat type of intimacy are your referring to? The idiots 1 and 2 seem to think its just romantic/sexual, and clearly lack an understanding of what the word intimacy means and encompasses. I would recommend figuring out just what kind of intimacy you want even before asking this sort of question. The type of intimacy you are seeking will determine the mechanism and approach you should use to obtain it. It also is difficult to have intimacy with others, if you do not know what you want from yourself first.
ReplyDeleteI've had a number of non-romantic close friendships before, which involved a lot of emotional intimacy (sharing everything, mutual support, openness, vulnerability with one another) and some physical intimacy (lots of hugs, friendly kisses etc). I guess I just miss those close close friendships that were intimate in nature and had few boundaries.
Delete@3: I think OP was asking for a solution to the problem, not more questions that further complicate his/her decision. At least 1 and 2 answered the question...fucking idiot...
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