QUESTION:
If I leave my email open, my girlfriend reads it. She looks at my inbox and my sent items. I know because she mentions things I know I haven't told her ('Why did you tell so-and-so to go to law school at wherever.') My email is, frankly, pretty boring so I'm not worried about her discovering anything. It seems damn rude to to that though. Thoughts?
Snooping is a sign of lack of trust (or beginning lack of trust/insecurity) in an individual and subsequently the relationship. I'd talk about it with her, but honestly, email is a gateway snoop/insecurity. Best to deal with it sooner than later.
ReplyDeleteIf you aren't giving her permission, that's an invasion of privacy, but she probably won't stop until you tell her you aren't OK with it.
ReplyDeleteShe sounds pretty crazy. Unless she is mad hot, I'd steer clear. Putting your dick in crazy is never a good idea...
ReplyDeleteEven hot isn't worth it. You show me the hottest girl in the world and I will show you a guy who wants nothing to do with her anymore.
DeleteThat guy has gotten bored of having sex with her so there is no appeal anymore due to her insanity. It's just like a new car. The first few rides are great, but you eventually stay for the fuel efficiency.
DeleteWhereas, if this is totally new. The thrill of having sex with hot but crazy may be too hard to resist. Might even be worth it for the short term. Once you have your fill, then you can trade in and so on and so forth...
lock your computer screen when you are not there
ReplyDeleteGet into her email. Maybe she cheated on you and wants to prove to herself that she isn't a hoe. Or maybe I'm paranoid.
ReplyDeleteSounds like you've had some bad experiences with hoes...
DeleteShe wants to leave you with a nasty scar
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