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QUESTION:
I've been going out with a guy for close to a month and we've had sex a couple of times. Every time I'm at his apartment, he asks me to spend the night. I haven't yet. Would a guy ask a girl to spend the night just because he's too lazy or tired to drive her home?

8 comments

  1. AnonymousSeptember 19, 2015 at 4:06 AM

    It's possible but more likely he wants to have sex.

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  2. AnonymousSeptember 20, 2015 at 2:05 PM

    I second what 1 said, but you could always say you'd like to but don't want to have sex. If that's all he cares about he'll overreact. If not then it should be all good.

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  3. AnonymousSeptember 20, 2015 at 4:27 PM

    Or he could genuinely like you and just wants to cuddle and shit? Sometimes girls assume the worst for no reason.

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    1. AnonymousSeptember 20, 2015 at 4:35 PM

      I thought this too. If you're already having sex consistently, he probably just wants to cuddle.

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    2. AnonymousSeptember 23, 2015 at 10:02 AM

      Yeah, I love cuddling and waking up with my girlfriend

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  4. AnonymousSeptember 21, 2015 at 12:05 AM

    Probably for the cuddles.

    Some guys just like the feeling of waking up in the morning with a half (or fully depending on the person) naked lying next to them.

    Plus he could want to make breakfast for you. It is one of the few things pretty much every guy can do well.

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  5. AnonymousSeptember 23, 2015 at 12:19 PM

    Some people just would like to have their significant other in their own space for awhile. Not sure why you immediately jumped to "he's lazy" as the reason.

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    1. AnonymousSeptember 23, 2015 at 2:09 PM

      It doesn't sound like they're in a relationship, which is probably the source of OP's confusion.

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