OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Wednesday, July 29

#7313

QUESTION: I have dated only beautiful and intelligent women up till now and the way that has happened is I go out of my way and get rejected quite a bit until I hit a bullseye. Some part of me thinks I should lower my standards because I am extremely sexually deprived at the moment. So, do you date girls you have no real interest in just because you want to feel the presence of a girl again?

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  1. Nah. Keep trying OP. Settling is only a bandaid for the now.

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  2. Or hook up with girls who are into that. Alleviates your issues until you meet someone you find interesting and compatible enough to date.

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  3. No. That's incredibly disrespectful. You'd just end up ditching them as soon as someone more attractive came along, and they deserve to have someone who's actually invested in them - not just looking for a lay.

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    1. Not OP, but I have dated a girl that was not even that invested in me while I was in her, so why not do it the other way around as well.

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    2. Because it likely made you feel shitty? Why punish an innocent person for something that another girl did to you? Not everyone is the same and it's a bad path to demonize and victimize the female sex just because of one member of it.

      Also, as someone who was unused to getting romantic attention until I reached university, I know how much something like that can hurt a person. You never know where someone is coming from so to you pumping and dumping might seem like no big deal but to something who hasn't dealt with that before, it can be devastating. Really, is there any good or ethical reason to raise someone's hopes and to make them care about you when you fully intend to break his or her heart?

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    3. to someone*

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    4. I see your point i guess

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    5. @3d It would also be personally unfortunate, too, since - if you do exactly what she did - in a way, you're sanctioning her action. She'd suddenly be able to say "Hey, what I did wasn't so bad. I mean, he did the same thing!"

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  4. hit and run buddy hit and run, and besides who is telling you to take them out on dates?

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