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Updated on Thursday, June 18

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QUESTION: My best friend just stop talking to me. She won't reply to my messages and just seems to not want anything to do with me. I don't think I've done anything wrong. She's been slowly pushing me away as of recent. I have no idea why. She's been an important part of my life for 10 years and now it's feeling like it's over. She'll be leaving to do her masters else where and I feel like I will never see her again. I've been crazy about her for some time but didn't want to tell her. It kills me thinking about it. What's a guy to do?

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  1. >What's a guy to do?

    Apparently wait until it's too late

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  2. Forget it. I had a similar experience. All I can say is a) don't make it about 'what you did'; it's probably more about what's going on in their lives, and b) fuck'em...if the feeling isn't reciprocal or they just are content to leave the onus on you to keep things going, forget it. Find someone worth investing in.

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    1. Not OP, is it safe to assume you two aren't friends anymore?

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  3. She probably is seeing some one.You missed your chance!!

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    1. Agreed... close guy/girl friendships can get complicated once someone starts seeing someone else, and sometimes, it's just easier to push the other person away

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  4. Congratulations. You have been replaced.

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  5. If they're really your friend/worth having around they will make an effort and stay in your life. The sooner you accept that about ANY relationship, the easier things become. It's not you...as long as you are a good friend and do your best to maintain a relationship the rest is out of your control.

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