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Updated on Tuesday, April 21

#7136

QUESTION: I wonder what guys think about girls who do not shave their upper lip, underarm and legs.
Also, girls, what do you think of another girl who doesn't shave?

19 comments

  1. No one shaves their upper lip...

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  2. When I was young and super insecure (aka middle/high school), I used to wax my upper lip and shave everything religiously. As I got older, I realized it really doesn't matter.

    These days, I never touch my facial hair (outside of shaping my eyebrows), I shave my armpits about once a month, and I get my legs waxed if I'm in the mood for it (usually once or twice a summer). I'm really happy with myself and my body and I've never had any issues with potential romantic partners. Honestly, I think it's overstated how much the average individual cares about any of these things...

    I should probably add the caveat that I'm (dark) blonde so my hair is visible but doesn't stand out too much. YMMV.

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  3. I think it's a girl's body and entirely her decision and anyone who judges her for it is an asshole.

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    1. Perfect. From now on I'm going to shave off my own eyebrows and then take special steroids to grow my nosehair and then braid it extra long. cuz fuck anyone who judges me, it's my body. it's not like people looking at me and getting grossed out matters in any way

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  4. First impression: she's been brainwashed by feminists; 90% bitch, stay away

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  5. Religiously wax, shave, tweeze, whatever needs to be done.
    To me, femininity will always involve being soft, silky smooth.

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    1. Exactly. Hair on head = GOOD. Eyebrows = GOOD. Vag...a tidy little patch or nothing at all. Anything in excess of that is slovenly and offputting.

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  6. If I see a girl who hasn't shaved these things I think... damn, you are brave and secure with yourself. I personally do these things because I feel prettier/confident... as tedious as it is.

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    1. or she is socially awkward and weird

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  7. If any man on here can say why women should and men shouldn't, without resorting to some pathetic "well I'll stop shaving my face and start shitting myself then is that what you want!?" Then maybe this is with having a discussion over but really, of course, the only reason anyone even cares is BC socialization/brainwashing,and so you should do whatever the fuck you want w your body and someone else will love it

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    1. Look, to be perfectly blunt, do you really want someone to spend a lot of time going down on you or not? No guy wants a bunch of pubic hair in their nose and mouth when he's lavishing oral attention on you.

      Keep your beaver ship shape.

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    2. 7a: no one here was talking about pubic hair at all. Except you. OP specifically mentioned face, underarms and legs, as did 7.

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    3. @7a But girls don't like getting pubes in the mouth either. I love my boyfriend to bits but his man area is like the Amazon, and going down on him usually results in me trying to subtly pull hairs out of my mouth. But, of course, he's a dude so why should he have to maintain the same standards that I do? I understand the appeal of being smooth, I do, but it does seem pretty unfair that women are expected to be perfectly hairless down there while men aren't.

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    4. 7c, just because he's a dude doesn't mean he shouldn't be cleaning up his pubic hair. Tell him you don't like it, and then when he shaves tell him how much you do. Done.

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    5. @7d I've talked to him about it. Thing is, it's easy for him to laugh it off. I would have to make a huge issue of it - which I'm not willing to do - in order to get him to actually shave down there. Why? Because everything out there tells him that, not only does he not have to shave, but that it's also weird for him to do it. Being hairy = being more masculine. Shaving = more metro. Also, when it comes to dudes, there's suddenly this, "A razor? Down there?!?!?" horror. With girls, it's the exact opposite. It's treated as gross if we don't shave, and dudes think it's totally natural for us to have sharp objects around our bits. Craziness!

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    6. A completely hairless vag freaks me out, makes me think I am with a pre-teen or something.

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    7. The main point I'm trying to make is, no one should *have* to shave - in particular, down there because that's not an area that's going to throw the general public into a tizzy. For shaving your pubes, it should just be seen as a courteous thing to do for your partner if either of you intends to do oral. Nice but not necessary, like how oral is nice but not necessary.

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    8. 'like how oral is nice but not necessary.'

      Sorry ladies, but if you don't give your man head, he's not going to stick around indefinitely. Of course, given the general caliber of women at this school I can imagine there are legions that say either 'Asking for oral is a form of oppression!' or 'Ewww, icky.' which is why most guys here hope to find someone on workterms or at Laurier.

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  8. is it normal if im getting horny reading all these posts above. lol

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