OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Monday, March 9


QUESTION: You guys probably get tons of these but this has been bugging me for quite some time.

I met a really cool person nearly a month ago. It really seemed like we hit it off and we also have plenty of overlapping interests. I had the opportunity to ask him out after the event but my nerves got the best of me. He doesn't have Facebook so I don't really know how to reach out to him.

Would it be weird to ask someone out for coffee even though you've only met them once? How late is too late to ask someone out on a date? (I have a feeling that it might be too late and that it'll just come off as creepy if I ask him out now)


  1. as a guy i would like that, go for it if you think he is into you

  2. Do it OP! I dont think it's weird at all. It's just coffee :)

  3. why the fuck would you think that is creepy?

    1. @3 - No need to be rude! Maybe OP just isn't sure whether they might seem too forward.
      I think you should go for it! It's definitely not too late, especially if you still see each other at events!

  4. the biggest regrets are usually the chances you don't take! go for what you want, girl :)

  5. nah it's not creepy, give it a go : )

  6. It's weird that you asked this question.

  7. Not weird at all. Ask away!

  8. "Hi, I wanted you to know I really enjoyed our chat! I've been busy and got sidetracked, but I keep meaning to ask you out for coffee, if you'd like to go sometime?"

    Easy as that OP.

  9. The only creepy girls are the girls that use the word "creep".