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Updated on Tuesday, February 24

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QUESTION: Need some help with insecurities. I get really jealous whenever my boyfriend says another girl is attractive or gives another girl attention, he is very sweet and only really comments on girls if someone asks him. I know I obviously shouldn't get mad as I find other guys attractive, and this is no big deal. However, I know this is a reflection of insecurities within myself, any ideas how to deal?

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  1. When I was super jealous about some of the stuff that my boyfriend was doing I..... talked to him about it! Cleared things right up. He was super understanding about it and I feel much better now.

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  2. Remember, another person's attractiveness is not the absence of your own.

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    1. +100 on this, I think we all (males and females) sometimes view our attractiveness in relation to others around us, someone else being attractive does not take away from you.

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    2. ^ Applies to so much actually, I used to struggle with other people being attractive/successful/happy and didn't understand why I was so bitter/jealous. It took me so long to understand that not everything is a competition for the best, their good points don't detract mine.

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  3. yes u shuld let him have sex w all the women too... its definitely all jealousy on ur part not him doing anything wrong. (sarcasm in case someone missed it)

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  4. If he's doing something that's making you uncomfortable, just tell him and you can both work it out properly. If he's only doing it when other people ask, I think he's just humouring his friends and sounds pretty respectful.

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