QUESTION: I'm a 19 year old girl. How do I ask a guy out, or at least let him know I'm interested? Never done it before, and the process seems terrifying!
Most guys are pretty chill. If they're not interested, they'll let you down easy. That in mind just remember that you'll be fine whether they say yes or not. This has been asked on OMGUW tons of times and its always the same answer.
We're going to be flattered either way. We appreciate the initiative.
As far as letting us know you're interested, playful touching like tickling or pushing. Also prolonged eye contact.
If you are really nervous just use facebook. Everyone says that doing this sort of thing through text/facebook isn't good, but its better than nothing, and makes the first few times easier.
Usually what I do is get drunk and send a text message that confesses my attraction. I have yet to be turned down, so I would assume that text message works - you probably don't have to be drunk though. It just makes it easier.
This is what worked for me when I was 19: I already knew the guy and we were in a club together. I just asked if he wanted to go out for dinner after our club meeting. Guys are really pretty easy-going, I find. Good luck :)
Most guys are pretty chill. If they're not interested, they'll let you down easy. That in mind just remember that you'll be fine whether they say yes or not. This has been asked on OMGUW tons of times and its always the same answer.
ReplyDeleteWe're going to be flattered either way. We appreciate the initiative.
As far as letting us know you're interested, playful touching like tickling or pushing. Also prolonged eye contact.
So much yes to the playful touching part. It has never not worked
DeleteSlip him a note that says, "be my boyfriend? :3" and underneath have "yes" and "no" with two empty squares.
ReplyDeleteI would actually find this cute hahah although a little creepy
Deletejump the gun and ask him to be your boyfriend? FUCK THAT. just say "hey, your face I like that shit, how about we go do something fun"
Deleteit's waterloo. Just ask and they'll say yes
ReplyDeleteIf you are really nervous just use facebook. Everyone says that doing this sort of thing through text/facebook isn't good, but its better than nothing, and makes the first few times easier.
ReplyDeleteUsually what I do is get drunk and send a text message that confesses my attraction. I have yet to be turned down, so I would assume that text message works - you probably don't have to be drunk though. It just makes it easier.
ReplyDeletethat sounds like terrible advice. Never drunk text.
DeleteDon't listen to 5.a. That would probably work on me. When you're drunk you just go for what you want at that moment, so thats straight from the heart.
DeleteThis is what worked for me when I was 19: I already knew the guy and we were in a club together. I just asked if he wanted to go out for dinner after our club meeting. Guys are really pretty easy-going, I find.
ReplyDeleteGood luck :)
Just say you stole my heart. I am died without you
ReplyDelete"Do you think I'm cute? :)" "Yeaaa" "Ask me out!"
ReplyDelete"Will you be my bae?" "YES! OH YES!!!"
Delete*makeout commences*