I am a 23 y/o
virgin (girl). To guys: how would you react to this? Would you be
weirded out? I feel like in today's society, people would automatically
assume there's something wrong with me because I am a virgin and haven't
ever been in a relationship.
It wouldn't stop me from doing the deed, but it would make me nervous because I've never taken a girl's virginity before.
ReplyDeleteThis is Waterloo. That's pretty normal. Don't worry about it :)
ReplyDeleteI'd rather be getting busy with a girl and find out she is a virgin than find out I'm not the only guy she fucked that week
ReplyDeleteThere is nothing wrong with that
ReplyDeleteJust because you've never had sex before doesn't mean he wouldn't want to have sex with you now.
ReplyDeleteIf a girl never tried pancakes, that wouldn't stop me from taking her to Mel's.
For some reason I really liked this analogy. I'll have to start using it. Thanks bud!
DeleteLOL! Love that analogy. Soon you'll have people quoting it all over campus, including me.
DeleteSoon, "going to Mel's" will become a euphemism for sex.
DeleteI'd consider you a trophy
ReplyDeleteHey gurl, we can arrange that. What's your phone number?
ReplyDeletePlease be proud of the fact that you are a virgin and not a mindless slut sheep in today's culture.
ReplyDeleteLose that V-card to the one that matters, because at the end of the day, sex is so overrated and it's most enjoyable with the person that you have an emotional connection with.
> mindless slut sheep
DeleteFuuuuuuck you and your whole values system
Oh 8, how little you understand of the world. Good luck with the divorce.
DeleteI'd like to say that as a "mindless slut sheep" who has slept with 3 people at age 23, I had an emotional connection with each of them. Maybe I didn't stay with all of them for my entire life, but the sex was great with each one (except the first few times, which is to be expected).
DeleteLOL 8 just got TKO'd by 8b
DeleteSluts leave relationships and divorce.
DeleteJust because it's most enjoyable with the person that you have an emotional connection with doesn't mean it's not enjoyable with someone you don't. It is like driving. My car is fast (ish) and really fun to drive, but I know that a Ferrari would be more fun. That doesn't mean I am going to not drive my car because it isn't the best car, just that I will always want that nicer car.
DeleteNot an issue. No one really cares beyond the point of knowing that they should take it slow when it comes time to do the deed. Virginity doesn't change who you are.
ReplyDeleteI've told 4 guys that I was close to having sex with that I was a virgin and none of them thought it was a big deal (One at 22, one at 23 and the other 2 at 24). Two of them begged me to let them take it and the other two were pretty neutral about it. I finally lost it 2 months ago at 24. I basically just said "so... I'm actually still a virgin... Are you okay with that or is it a bit too weird for you?"
ReplyDeleteDid you become attached to them forever?
DeleteWe had sex the first day we met so I didn't get attached at all. Maybe if I had been dating him for a while, I might've gotten a lot more attached than the average girl would after dating and having sex. But I went into it knowing I just wanted a new exciting experience- nothing romantic
DeleteThat is much better than if you told me you weren't a virgin.
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