OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Sunday, November 30

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QUESTION: How do I make myself seem more approachable to guys? I've been told I am intimidating to approach by guys I am friends with (they said it was just the vibes I gave off) but I don't want to give off this negative attitude! I am a girl.

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  1. do you have a chronic "bitch face"

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    1. I actually don't, haha! My default expression is more of a smile than anything else.

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  2. I've been told this too. Try smiling more often, it helps. I find more people approach me during a period of life in which I am happy.

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    1. This is the correct answer.

      Whether you're talking romantically or just socially, the way to be most approachable is to approach people. Then even bystanders will observe that you are willing to talk to strangers and they will be more likely to approach you.

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  4. Become less attractive.

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    1. Or maybe more attractive, depending on where you sit on the attractiveness scale.

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  5. I could never be intimidated by a girl with whom I share an interest. Maybe try meeting some guys at UW clubs? Passion is confident and confidence is sexy

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    1. Confidence can also intimidate people. I am not saying don't be confident, just don't be afraid to show some weakness every once in a while.

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    2. @5a, in most cases, you don't want to be with somebody who will only be with you if you're weak. >.>

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    3. 5b) Not weak, just human

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