OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Monday, November 3

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QUESTION: How do you get a guy to notice you? I've thought this guy was cute in one of my classes all semester but am too embarrassed to say hi.

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  1. You sound like a high school kid. Just suck it up and find some way to talk to him

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  2. Guy here: We're pretty stupid, you're typically going to have to go out of your way to get into a discussion with him. Maybe ambush him after class or something?

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    1. Guy here: We're not stupid. People are really obvious when interested. Talk to him and if it leads nowhere ever he probably wasn't interested.

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    2. Guy here: Assume social incompetence, seeing as it sounds like you're fairly socially incompetent, OP, haha. Ambush him after class and chat with him; imo, it hurts more regretting doing nothing as opposed to regretting doing something silly.

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  3. OP: say hi. He'll probably notice that!

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  4. Sit beside him one day. At the end of class ask if he made notes on one slide that you missed (but you actually just wrote it somewhere else, just in case he doesn't have it). Just be like "Hey, did you get any notes for slide 20?". And you are in. After you get the notes introduce yourself like "Oh, I'm (inset name here) by the way." When he gives you his name, smile, say "Thanks for the notes, see you later". He might try to start a conversation here, but don't expect it. Sit beside him in the next class too. When you sit down, casually say "hey" and if he starts a conversation, he is interested, if not, you can try to start one, but if he doesn't seem interested, don't continue, and don't sit beside him in the next class.

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    1. By the way, this is how my ex-friend met one of his girlfriends who is now my girlfriend, which is the reason he is my ex-friend.

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    2. Not cool, bro.

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  5. ^ you went against the bro code.

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