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Updated on Monday, October 20

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QUESTION: For everyone here in a relationship: how often do you have sex? My partner doesn't want to have sex with me anymore

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  1. Aw, I'm sorry to hear that. A healthy relationship should involve a level of sexual activity that both parties are comfortable with. That being said, I will have sex with you.

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    1. That being said, I will have sex with you.

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    2. That being said, I will have sex with you.

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  2. 2-4 times a week, depending on energy and availability.

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  3. 2/3 times per every 24 hours we spend together.

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  4. At least five times a day when we see each other. Otherwise skype daily.

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  5. When we're off-stream or doing co-ops away from each other- then we have sex at every chance we get, usually one to two times a day whenever we visit. If we're at school together or doing co-op/school in Waterloo, then 3-5 times a week.

    Does your SO want to stop having sex completely or he/she is not that into it anymore and they're not making an effort? Sex does sometimes decrease for some couples the longer they've been together. I would just say ask them if there is anything wrong. Have a discussion and meet at a happy medium where you both are satisfied. Other than that, maybe up on the seduction and flirtation. It's easy to stop trying when you're in a relationship for a long time sometimes. It can be off-putting when your SO just wants sex out of nowhere with zilch foreplay and you're not in the mood and didn't have that chance build up on it.

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  6. My girl Pamela Handerson and I do the deed probably twice a day.

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    1. That cheating bitch, after all those fancy gloves I bought her

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    2. I'm sure you two could help each-other out, cut out the middleman.

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    3. I didn't think I bought her those gloves!! She said that I was drunk amazon shopping, but I knew it!! I wonder how many other people she has cheated with!

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  7. Move on, the only reason I've ever lost interest in sleeping with a partner is because I wasn't romantically interested in them anymore. Granted, it took me at one point 2 years to realize this because I was in denial, thought it was a phase etc...

    Just pull the band-aid off and move on, you will be glad you did

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  8. about once a week. i'd like more often (2-3 times would be ideal per week) but my partner has a bit of a lower sex drive than me + we are both busy. it's a bit frustrating but not worth leaving my partner over because we have an amazing relationship.

    that said you should go read www.reddit.com/r/deadbedrooms . if your SO doesn't want to have sex at all anymore you should probably just cut your losses now instead of dragging it out.

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  9. About 3-4 times a week.

    If your partner doesn't want sex and you do, you can either try to work out the problem or move on. Your relationship won't last with huge disparities in sexual drive.

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