OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Saturday, October 11

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QUESTION: Ladies who let their boyfriends take nude pictures of you; do you automatically assume that he will show them to his friends or do you actually expect and trust that hew will keep them private?

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  1. I trust that my boyfriend wouldn't pass them around. However, I am very open about my body and am not ashamed of nudity. If the photos did get out (obviously I would then have to confront my boyfriend), it wouldn't be the end of the world. It's nothing that people haven't seen before and I don't see why sexuality is something to be concealed. We're all either male or female, and we all know that men have penises and girls have breasts and vaginas. Why is it so horrible to have our "private parts" hidden?

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    1. Do you not understand that word?

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  3. OP, by your tone you seem to think that it's inevitable that a guy won't keep photos private. I'd just like to say that for all the guys that do share photos, there could be many who never have and never will.

    I've had nude photos of exes, but I think if you respect them enough to enter a relationship you should also have the respect to keep them private even if the relationship ends.

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  4. I recently had a guy take photos of me without my permission/awareness and now it's always nagging at the back of my mind that they'll get out sometime.

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    1. and thats when you take legal action

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    2. ^ lmao do you think this is a movie

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    3. I'm not saying its necessarily worth doing, but if it bothers you that much then you're within your rights.

      Also what movies do you watch that involve people taking legal action for leaked photos?

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    4. Thanks 4a/4c! Honestly I never considered taking legal action because I feel like part of the pleasure he gets from the photos is from the power he feels he has (from violating my boundaries) so the best thing I can do is laugh and joke about it when I'm around him (I've known him for years and we have a lot of mutual friends so it's not like I can just never see him again) and make sure it doesn't happen again by never hooking up with him again.

      It's probably dumb and passive-aggressive of me but it's the least messy solution I can think of, and for obvious reasons I want to avoid making a scene out of this at all costs.

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  5. Lmao. Please don't let them take nude pictures of you. You're too trusting.
    Yes, they will show others eventually.

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  6. I took nude pics of my ex gf when we were still together. I never showed them to anyone. A few months after we broke up, I deleted them all and reformatted the hard drive. It seemed like the chivalrous thing to do. She doesn't believe me though.

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  7. Why don't people just realize you can take sexy pics without the face?? Keep your anonymity? I send nudies to my man every few days just for fun, and just don't put any super identifying features in it...not rocket science!

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  8. it shouldn't be something that anyone should be made to feel ashamed of. your significant other should also not be showing those photos to anyone without your consent.
    OP in response to your original question i'd have to say no i don't assume that my significant other is going to show all his friends because i'm an adult and so is he and sharing personal photos like that is a very juvenile thing to do. put ur face in the pics all you want there's nothing to be ashamed of everyone's got a body i think it's great to be so comfortable and proud of your body that you want to share it with someone else.

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  9. It should go without saying that he should keep those pics to himself. Unless you're dating a immature douchebag. But then again if you let that kind of guy take nudes of you, you're just asking for it.

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    1. Pretty sure OP is one of said immature douchebags

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    2. No one is ever "asking for it." What a shitty concept.

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  10. I asked my boyfriend honestly and he said that he wouldn't want his friends to see them. Only he gets to see me naked.

    Still though, I don't put my face in the pictures. Not that I don't trust him but shit happens. Plus, what if someone steals his phone?

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  11. Make him give you some pics too. Mutually assured destruction.

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    1. I like the way you think. ;)

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  12. I trust that the photos will remain private. His eyes only.

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