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Updated on Sunday, September 21

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QUESTION: what is the fasted way to get over someone? I've had other guys ask me out but I can't stop thinking about my ex

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  1. Cut all ties, no Facebook, no texting, none of that. If you have to see him in class or at work DO NOT engage in prolonged conversation, a polite hi and smile is enough if he initiates contact.

    Also, let yourself grieve, stay involved in activities and connect with friends. It isn't fair to date the new guys if you are still pining for your ex. The feelings will lessen with time. Unfortunately you can't speed that up, it's shit and that's life.

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  2. It's different for every person. For some, a relationship actually helps (but be up-front about it. Don't suddenly, two months in, say "I can't do it, I'm not over him").

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  3. the best way to get over someone is by getting under someone else.

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  4. Yes you can stop thinking about your ex. Belief follows behaviour. Behaviour follows belief.

    Lessen the amount of time thinking about him to reduce obsessing. Distract your brain with other things. I'd suggest your studies. Get absorbed in your schoolwork topics. Whenever you catch yourself thinking of him, turn your mind away to another topic. School, nudge.

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  5. ^yup. reality is what u make of it. listen to 4's first line.

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  6. Try to induce an early onset of amnesia.

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