QUESTION: I have been out on a
few dates with this guy I like. However, he told me that right now he
is emotionally unavailable. Should I be friends with him? Or should I
just forget him?
I am like this guy. I am like this because its easier on me when the girl eventually gets bored (sometimes after weeks, sometimes after years) and moves on to the next victim.
But I still enjoy them while they last, pursue him anyway.
You're wasting your time with this guy. If he wants to be in a relationship with you he wouldn't be making up excuses for why he can't date you seriously.
Can you ask why he's emotionally unavailable? If this it's a temporary reason, like he's trying to get over a person at the moment, then stay friends. If this is a long lasting trend (he's been like this for more than a year for example) then don't.
why do people date when they are "emotionally unavailable"
ReplyDeleteI am like this guy.
ReplyDeleteI am like this because its easier on me when the girl eventually gets bored (sometimes after weeks, sometimes after years) and moves on to the next victim.
But I still enjoy them while they last, pursue him anyway.
You're wasting your time with this guy. If he wants to be in a relationship with you he wouldn't be making up excuses for why he can't date you seriously.
ReplyDeleteThat's a pretty stupid excuse.
ReplyDeleteForget about him.
Can you ask why he's emotionally unavailable? If this it's a temporary reason, like he's trying to get over a person at the moment, then stay friends.
ReplyDeleteIf this is a long lasting trend (he's been like this for more than a year for example) then don't.
Forget him. Being a friend involves emotions too and he's already made it clear he won't have any to offer.
ReplyDeleteYou better forget him.
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