QUESTION: How can I tell my girlfriend that it would be nice if she trimmed her pubic hair (and before anyone asks, yes, I trim mine)? My enjoyment of going down on her (and subsequently hers) is hindered by too much growth.
Talk to her? Jesus fucking christ lol its not like the options are endless... send her a text, leave a picture, get her mom to talk to her about hygiene fuck
Trend carefully - you don't want to hurt her feelings by making her think you don't find her sexy or that you don't enjoy sex with her.
Ideally, watch a stupid movie where pubes are brought up (I am pretty sure there is a scene in She's Out of my League or something) and then casually ask "are you happy with how I care for my pubic hair?"...she will answer...and then if she doesn't ask first, ask her "have you ever tried trimming or shaving?". This way it is light hearted, and you show her your own vulnerability by discussing your body hair first. If she asks you if you want her to shave or trim, be sure to let her know that it ultimately doesn't matter, but you wouldn't be against a little trimming so you can pleasure her even more.
I would ask her to trim straight up. It sounds like you guys are pretty even on the giving and receiving so it shouldn't sound unreasonable. Trimming over shaving is a lot less work and potential irritation and it makes a big difference from oral.
Leave a Canadian Tire flyer sitting around with a hedge trimmer circled in red?
ReplyDeleteI think maybe you should talk to her and show her a Canadian Tire pamphlet with a hedge trimmer circled in red.
ReplyDeleteTalk to her? Jesus fucking christ lol its not like the options are endless... send her a text, leave a picture, get her mom to talk to her about hygiene fuck
ReplyDeleteNot OP here. It's a delicate thing to mention, I can see why he would want a woman's perspective on how to broach it.
DeleteTrend carefully - you don't want to hurt her feelings by making her think you don't find her sexy or that you don't enjoy sex with her.
ReplyDeleteIdeally, watch a stupid movie where pubes are brought up (I am pretty sure there is a scene in She's Out of my League or something) and then casually ask "are you happy with how I care for my pubic hair?"...she will answer...and then if she doesn't ask first, ask her "have you ever tried trimming or shaving?". This way it is light hearted, and you show her your own vulnerability by discussing your body hair first. If she asks you if you want her to shave or trim, be sure to let her know that it ultimately doesn't matter, but you wouldn't be against a little trimming so you can pleasure her even more.
Hope this helps.
This sounds really awkward.... I'd just straight up ask her.
DeleteThat or use the canadian tire flyer.
Tread carefully
DeleteTell her that her bush is just like her moms.
ReplyDeleteWTF is this?
DeleteI would ask her to trim straight up. It sounds like you guys are pretty even on the giving and receiving so it shouldn't sound unreasonable. Trimming over shaving is a lot less work and potential irritation and it makes a big difference from oral.
ReplyDeleteShow her a picture of an Ewok. Then tell her that she reminds you of one.
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