OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Wednesday, August 13

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QUESTION: Anyone else out there think that they are too unattractive to be in a relationship and resigned to their fate to stay single? What are your plans for life? (Or, what other goals do you have besides pursuing/maintaining a relationship?) How do you cope with the stigma of being single?

15 comments

  1. I'm afraid this post is by my best friend :( No one is too unattractive to be in a relationship!

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    1. What about people with Down's Syndrome?

      Or people who are physically deformed... like this nigga.
      apu.sh/deformedguy

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    2. My cousin has Down's Syndrome and is getting married in the fall! :)

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    3. @1b: I don't mean to sound insensitive, but does their partner also have a similar condition? I have a family member who has Down's Syndrome so I'm a bit familiar with it, but I cannot imagine spending the rest of my days with someone affected by it. I feel like the relationship would be incredibly unbalanced.

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    4. Ya, I'm actually in awe of that. Either the person marrying your cousin is the nicest person ever or they have Down's Syndrome too.

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    5. It's not super uncommon for people with Down's syndrome to date each other (or other people who have developmental delays in general). I'm guessing 1b's cousin is getting married to another person with Down's/a developmental delay. Otherwise, I agree with 1c that the relationship would be really unbalanced.

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  2. I have this thought about every-other day. I've been disappointed so many times and I think it's time to resign myself to the fact that I'm just not attractive. I stay busy. For those who are lonely, there's always work to occupy the empty hours.

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  3. Plan is to get filthy rich. That will occupy my time

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  4. Maybe you'll find an unequally unattractive mate someday who will like the way you look. Perhaps you guys need to lower your dating standards and focus more on personality?

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  5. I'm IN a relationship and I feel too ugly to be in a relationship. Attractiveness is really subjective and most people tend to be biased when thinking about their own looks; many think they're either hotter than hell or uglier than sin when, in reality, neither is true. We're all just kind of animate blobs of flesh when it comes down to it.

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  6. Maybe you should just lower your standards? Pretty much no matter how ugly you are, statistically there are thousands, if not millions of people uglier than you.

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  7. lol this is exactly me. I'm hideous. But I'm actually content with being single forever. It's more the stigma of being single that makes me wish I were in a relationship.

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