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Updated on Sunday, August 10

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QUESTION: How can you tell if a guy is gay or bi? Im sure this questions has been asked countless times, and I've even googled this, but seriously I'd like peer-to-peer responses.
This guy is extremely fit, built, etc. He plays soccer and hockey. But everyone keeps saying he's gay or at least bi. He's sort of been really close to one of friends (guy) and always finds a way to touch him. He also talks to him about stuff outside of school work, which he apparently doesn't do to anyone else. He also has a "sleeping buddy (girl)", but everyone thinks its a coverup. He's really quiet, and keeps to himself, and only ever talks when he's around my friend, so people often wonder why that is?

10 comments

  1. Why do you even care.

    What a shitty post

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    1. Exactly. What difference does it make?

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  2. You could...I don't know...fucking ask him? "Hey man, are you into dudes?" How difficult is that?

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    1. as a guy who fucks other dudes, this is still an extremely hard thing to just ask a guy

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  3. Hmm, I don't know how you could find out unless he seems willing to come out?

    I'm assuming you like him, so...

    You could see if he's on an online dating site or app, or you could come out to him (or not directly to him but to your mutual group of friends) or hint that you're gay and see how he reacts?

    But if he's not out yet or not ready to come out then I wouldn't try and force anything out of him, especially since he seems to be quiet and keeps to himself. If he's in a male-dominated program, it could even be that he's too shy to approach women.

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  4. Yes. In the folds of his scrotum there's a little mark that specifies whether he's straight, gay, bi or whatever so it's actually pretty easy to tell!

    Tl;DR: You're stupid. Only way to be sure is to ask.

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  5. Maybe it's none of your business what someone's sexuality is.

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  6. lol there's no magic way to tell. people get vibes that can be right or wrong, based on behaviour and stuff. he might also just be fucking shy. or maybe he's gay AND shy. why do you care? if you're interested in him then stop trying to decode him and ask him out. i can only assume you're not a gay guy yourself or else you wouldn't be so uninformed.

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  7. As a gay guy, I can tell you that the only way to actually know is ASK.

    "Clues" and "vibes" aren't entirely accurate and you're going to end up guessing anyways

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  8. 1. Get an iPhone
    2. Download grindr
    3. Get near him
    4. Open up grindr and see if he pops up

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