The only way to get over it is not to dwell on it. I just went through a messy break and yeah it was really hard not to focus on it for a week. However, after a while it'll slip your mind every once in a while. After a bit, you'll have to make an effort to think of it.
Just keep yourself busy and any time you start dwelling on it just remember there's other partners and the relationship obviously wasn't going to continue so why fret?
What's up with the guy saying "it's hard for girls" and "girls give up when things get even a little bit tough" (11:24 and 11:25 on the same day)? He must be butthurt about some girl who dumped him.
Long distance can be hard for anyone, saying it's only so for girls is ridiculous. It sounds like the girl just wasn't that into you, OP. Just keep yourself busy, go out with friends, try new things. The sadness will fade with time.
Forget about her, she would have made it work if she really cared about you.
ReplyDeleteMaybe it was a mutual breakup?
DeleteIt wasnt, she said it wouldn't work, and I just went along with it with no confrontation
DeleteHang in there OP, we all learn this lesson once in our lifetimes and you will be better for it.
DeleteGirls give up when relationships get even a little bit tough, just don't sweat it and you'll save yourself a shitload of stress down the road.
If you like her that much, why did you break up? Long distance isn't too hard if you guys aren't that far
ReplyDeleteIt's hard for girls.
DeleteWe are gonna be very very far like different countries
Delete2a, how is it any harder for girls...?
DeleteThe only way to get over it is not to dwell on it. I just went through a messy break and yeah it was really hard not to focus on it for a week. However, after a while it'll slip your mind every once in a while. After a bit, you'll have to make an effort to think of it.
ReplyDeleteJust keep yourself busy and any time you start dwelling on it just remember there's other partners and the relationship obviously wasn't going to continue so why fret?
What's up with the guy saying "it's hard for girls" and "girls give up when things get even a little bit tough" (11:24 and 11:25 on the same day)? He must be butthurt about some girl who dumped him.
ReplyDeleteLong distance can be hard for anyone, saying it's only so for girls is ridiculous. It sounds like the girl just wasn't that into you, OP. Just keep yourself busy, go out with friends, try new things. The sadness will fade with time.
Find someone else...personal experience
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