QUESTION: When looking at a potential partner, do you:
A) value virginity
B) prefer they not be virgins
C) don't care either way?
State age, sex and ethnicity.
A girl who's cheated in the past might be more likely to cheat. A girl who sleeps around isn't any more or less likely to cheat and it's pretty gross/slut-shame-y to suggest so.
B. It's definitely not a deal breaker - things like personality are much more important. It's just a preference at the same level of how I prefer my partner to be Asian. 20/m/asian.
Prefer virgin (in fact I will probably reject non-virgins), since I'm saving my virginity for my wedding night and I expect my future wife to do the same. 20, male, Asian
6 here. Want to add I'm following my parents' example. From what they told me, they were both virgins when they married. And the country I came from forbid talking about sex (at least it used to be not 5 years ago) so they had no idea how to do it, and on their wedding night all 4 of my grandparents was in the bedroom giving them instructions.
Don't really care either way. Everything else equal, maybe a very slight advantage to virgin, but it would not be a deciding factor in any normal situation. Obviously I don't want them to have slept with every guy in the city, but really, what a girl does is up to her.
22,Male, Canadian (Also white if that matters at all)
OP checking in. so far guys either dont care or slightly/mostly prefer a virgin, while girls prefer a non virgin. keep these responses coming. i hope to make a chart at the end of this.
Agreeing with 13. It was nice that for my first time we were both virgins, but now, I like someone with experience. I don't want to have to be a teacher and/or afraid of teeth if you know what i mean. 22/m/canadian
I don't care about their virginity, but I'd rather they didn't have unprotected sex, or sex with loads of randoms.
ReplyDelete23, Female, Caucasian (Irish Canadian).
I don't give any fucks about who they've had sex with in the past. Girls are more to me than a vagina to fuck, who cares if they're a virgin or not
ReplyDeleteThe prevalent internet argument is if a girl is too slutty, she's more likely to cheat. So the whore factor has play a role
DeleteA girl who's cheated in the past might be more likely to cheat. A girl who sleeps around isn't any more or less likely to cheat and it's pretty gross/slut-shame-y to suggest so.
Delete2b, +1
DeleteC.
ReplyDelete21/M/Canadian
B. It's definitely not a deal breaker - things like personality are much more important. It's just a preference at the same level of how I prefer my partner to be Asian. 20/m/asian.
ReplyDeleteprefer them not be virgins.
ReplyDelete23/F/Brown.
Prefer virgin (in fact I will probably reject non-virgins), since I'm saving my virginity for my wedding night and I expect my future wife to do the same.
ReplyDelete20, male, Asian
I am glad you are holding yourself to the same standard. Some people sleep around while expecting that the girl they will marry to be a virgin.
Delete6 here. Want to add I'm following my parents' example.
DeleteFrom what they told me, they were both virgins when they married. And the country I came from forbid talking about sex (at least it used to be not 5 years ago) so they had no idea how to do it, and on their wedding night all 4 of my grandparents was in the bedroom giving them instructions.
@6b: That sounds like a scarring experience for your parents.
Delete6b here: In fact the village all gathered around and sacrificed my ugly sister to the gods so I would be blessed with 7 strong sons.
Delete6 and 6b here. Just to say 6d is not me.
Delete6d here, 6e is lying. Must of sucked on the bad goat milk his entire life.
DeleteA6c are you retarded
DeleteDon't really care either way. Everything else equal, maybe a very slight advantage to virgin, but it would not be a deciding factor in any normal situation. Obviously I don't want them to have slept with every guy in the city, but really, what a girl does is up to her.
ReplyDelete22,Male, Canadian (Also white if that matters at all)
B, presuming he isn't a manwhore.
ReplyDelete20/F/Asian
B presuming they're not a man whore. No more than 10
ReplyDelete23/f/Asian
OP checking in. so far guys either dont care or slightly/mostly prefer a virgin, while girls prefer a non virgin.
ReplyDeletekeep these responses coming. i hope to make a chart at the end of this.
WTF, only 1 person who was trolling said option a.
DeleteYou're reading into your own bias douche slugger.
+1 10.a
Deleteit all depends... are you into animals? or not?
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ReplyDelete20/m/asian
B.
ReplyDelete20/male/caucasian
I think OP also needs to ask whether the respondent is/isn't a virgin themselves.
I am not a virgin, so I appreciate someone with some experience. I was glad to lose my virginity to another virgin though.
3 checking in. I lost my virginity to my ex-girlfriend. In fact, we were both virgins when we finally got around to having sex.
DeleteOh, and I'm also white, if that helps.
Agreeing with 13. It was nice that for my first time we were both virgins, but now, I like someone with experience. I don't want to have to be a teacher and/or afraid of teeth if you know what i mean.
Delete22/m/canadian
A
ReplyDeleteVirgin myself. Religion plays a factor. Waiting until marriage. Prefer my significant other to share similar values.
23/M/Brown
C. I don't care either way.
ReplyDelete20 / Female / Black
I'd prefer B but it wouldn't be a big deal if the guy was a virgin.
ReplyDelete22/female/Asian
Don't care either way.
ReplyDelete23/F/Asian
C
ReplyDeleteThough I do think there is a number of past partners where I'd start to feel uncomfortable
20/M/Caucasian(European)
This.
Delete22/M/Caucasian
A and B
ReplyDeleteI'd rather the girl not be a virgin but if I'm really into her it wouldn't matter. Also agree with 18.
ReplyDelete25/M/White
C.
ReplyDelete20/F/white
also a lesbian if that matters, which i think it does because this shit's and the idea of virginity in general is pretty heteronormative
A, 22/F/brown. I'm waiting for marriage from a religious/personal viewpoint, so I'd prefer someone who shared that as well.
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ReplyDelete23/F/Blackish
A. Because I am a virgin and I want to wait till marriage.
ReplyDelete19/F/Asian
Sure there
DeleteA since I am also a virgin and want to have first time together
ReplyDeleteF/19/Asian