OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Friday, June 20


QUESTION: Friends with benefits - how is it accomplished? I want cold hard facts, not generalizations (like find someone you like and are attracted to and see where it goes bullshit yada yada yada)


  1. There are no cold hard facts. There is no checklist that you complete in order to get a FWB. You just gotta find the right person and ask at the right time. Make sure they know that you are not looking for a relationship.

  2. well, if you have to ask, your personality probably isn't suited to finding a fwb easily

  3. No one "asks" to be in a fwb situation.

    You bring him/her to a party, then you bring him/her back to your place... and fuck.

    Whats the big deal?

  4. You say that's a generalisation, but, that is actually how it goes down most of the time lol
    You find someone attractive, but you don't want a relationship, they reciprocate these feelings, and you have sex. That's honestly all there is to it.

  5. You have a friend, who you are attracted to in a purely physical sense, you suggest sex.