OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Monday, June 16

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QUESTION: what does it mean when a guy says "I want you to sleepover because I like sleeping next to you and waking up beside you"? is he just trying to get me to sleepover so he can have sex with me? or does he having feelings for me? we are currently in a fwb relationship

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  1. Shouldn't you be having sex anyway if you're fwb? Why would he try to get you to sleep over just so you can have sex??

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    1. OP here.
      we've only had sex about 2 times and I dont know if I even want to be in a fwb relationship with him

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    2. and we dont have sex every time we hangout

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    3. Relationship

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    4. If you don't have sex everytime you hang out, its very much a relationship without the label. You guys are on different pages and its time to get on the same page.

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  2. "I want you to sleepover because I like sleeping next to you and waking up beside you"

    Relationship incoming.

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  3. If a person who can reasonably expect to have sex with you because you're FWBs wants you to just sleep in his bed because they 'like sleeping next to you', they are probably trying to escalate into a relationship.

    If a person who you think is sexually attracted to you but cannot reasonably expect to have sex with you at any time you're in the mood wants you to climb into their bed, they probably want to fuck your brains out.

    If you like getting attractive people into your bed without having sex with them, I think you're either lying to yourself or a massive outlier. If you don't want to have sex with somebody, they should probably not be sleeping in bed with you. You have a couch or a floor, right?

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  4. Omg I sent that to you in private! Just ask me next time...

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  5. It means exactly what it says it means, nothing more, nothing less. Some guys like to cuddle, some guys like to not sleep alone.

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