#6687

Updated on Monday, June 16

#6687

QUESTION: what does it mean when a guy says "I want you to sleepover because I like sleeping next to you and waking up beside you"? is he just trying to get me to sleepover so he can have sex with me? or does he having feelings for me? we are currently in a fwb relationship

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AnonymousJune 16, 2014 at 6:27 PM
Shouldn't you be having sex anyway if you're fwb? Why would he try to get you to sleep over just so you can have sex??
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AnonymousJune 16, 2014 at 6:42 PM
"I want you to sleepover because I like sleeping next to you and waking up beside you"

Relationship incoming.
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Simon MagnusJune 16, 2014 at 11:28 PM
If a person who can reasonably expect to have sex with you because you're FWBs wants you to just sleep in his bed because they 'like sleeping next to you', they are probably trying to escalate into a relationship.

If a person who you think is sexually attracted to you but cannot reasonably expect to have sex with you at any time you're in the mood wants you to climb into their bed, they probably want to fuck your brains out.

If you like getting attractive people into your bed without having sex with them, I think you're either lying to yourself or a massive outlier. If you don't want to have sex with somebody, they should probably not be sleeping in bed with you. You have a couch or a floor, right?
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AnonymousJune 16, 2014 at 11:43 PM
Omg I sent that to you in private! Just ask me next time...
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AnonymousJune 18, 2014 at 3:24 PM
It means exactly what it says it means, nothing more, nothing less. Some guys like to cuddle, some guys like to not sleep alone.
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