OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Monday, June 9

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QUESTION: Guys who use tinder- do you just swipe right almost every girl and play it as a numbers game and then message only the most attractive ones once you get matched with people? I just started using it and it seems like everyone I like is a match but very few message me and this seems like the most reasonable explanation- just want to confirm

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  1. Girls who use tinder- do you just swipe right almost every guy and play it as a numbers game and then message only the most attractive ones once you get matched with people? I just started using it and it seems like everyone I like is a match but very few message me and this seems like the most reasonable explanation- just want to confirm

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    1. Obviously not... You've clearly never used it. They get to be more selective

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    2. Usually girls get enough guys messaging them first that they don't feel to message anyone else.

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  2. I swipe right to everyone to see who's interested in me, and then I'll block them if I'm not interested. I'll message every girl I am interested in, but a whopping majority either don't respond, or the conversation doesn't last more than a few replies.

    Yes, I know what I do is wrong but I wasn't getting any luck otherwise.

    Most of the girls I've spoken to use tinder primarily as a confidence booster, and have little to no desire to meet up with anyone.

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    1. Ugh... I'm so embarrassed that I let that give me an ego boost. Don't think I'll be using the app anymore

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  3. +1. Most people I know use Tinder as a game & primarily to boost their ego. Although I know one person who used it for a few hookups.

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    1. Most people you know or most girls you know? I've heard girls use it that way and guys use it as described in the OP but I have no real data points except the one guy who responded in this thread.

      Anyway, I'm gonna do an experiment to find out. Same profile with a pretty blonde white girl and if I still get no messages then I won't feel like I might be delusional about my looks. If I do, that'll be kinda sad.

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  4. Guy here. I am super selective. I know I am never going to actually meet any of them, so I just use it as a daily confidence boost to get matched to a super hot girl.

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