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Updated on Thursday, June 5

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QUESTION: If a girl is healthy and fit but still has fat on her stomach, is that a big deal to a guy? Societal standards are rock hard abs or flat stomachs :(

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  1. No, it's perfectly fine.

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  2. Fuck societal standards. Be yourself and proud, you're healthy, that's what matters. If someone judges you based on some stomach fat they aren't worth you time.

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  3. It's nearly impossible for some girls to get that last bit of stomach fat off.
    Don't worry about it so much :)

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  4. Not a big deal. Is a sweet deal.

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  5. I don't know what the fuck everyone above me (aka all the women posters) are saying.

    I'll concede its not that big of a deal, fine whatever.

    Should you be unhappy about it? Yes, its obviously unattractive.

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    1. Yeah, not everyone subscribes to the "even an inch of fat is totally disgusting" standard of beauty, including men... but if you think having "higher" standards for women makes you better somehow, more power to you? Frankly, you're just selecting for the ones that are naturally sticks, and that's fine, but don't go all condescending like this is the only acceptable standard of attractiveness. I much prefer curvy women, but am happy with those of almost any size.

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    2. Where did I say I like women that look like sticks?

      I like women that are attractive, don't tell this bitch "she fine just the way she is" when its not the truth.

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    3. You realize that probably fewer than 10% of women really have a "flat" stomach, right? Especially after they hit mid-20s, 30s.
      In order to see abs, a woman has to drop to ~15% body fat or less which is not easy or really healthy.

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  6. As long as you're not pudgy, you're good. And of course, you shouldn't mind my slight belly fat, and I won't mind yours.

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  7. I don't understand why people don't have flat stomachs. There is no excuse to be chubby. Run a fucking mile everyday and stop eating those twinkies.

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    1. This is dumb. You can exercise and not eat twinkies and still not have a flat stomach. Everyone carries their weight differently.

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    2. Then stop carrying it.

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    3. Agreed 7a, 7 doesn't know how bodies work (other than theirs). I know some people who run 10k's, eat healthy, and work as sports coaches but still have some fat. Others do shit all and have zero stomach fat but chicken legs :P

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    4. 7c, that is me. I run 10k's and train but still have fat

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    5. genetics, you heard of it?

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    6. I run 5ks every fucking day, still haven't lost fat around my hips & thighs.

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    7. Expend more than you consume. The pounds will go away.

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    8. i'm a girl who's 5'8. i can deadlift 200 without breaking a sweat, play rugby, and lifeguard. i'm paleo, and i strictly eat 1500 calories a day. i weigh 175lbs and wear a size 10-12. am i unhealthy? fuck no i'm not. am i 'skinny'? also a no.
      i have some insecurities about my body, but i've accepted and embraced that i'll never be a skinny girl. i'm stronger than most guys i know, my body does anything i ask it to, and my ass is fantastic. don't worry about what people might think about a little tummy fat. as the saying goes, "those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter."

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    9. To those who are saying just reduce your intake and you'll lose fat, you people clearly don't know how human bodies work.

      Being skinny does not always equal being healthy. It's easy to say eat less, but it's important to eat healthy & not push yourself to starvation.

      If you're starving yourself and have a skinny figure, I would not date you. Exercise & a nutritious diet, that's what matters to me.

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  8. ^ bs. Lift heavy things. Eat less. You don't even have to eat healthy, just eat less. Put down heavy things and pick them up again. Energy in needs to be less than energy out.

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  9. Woah everyone. Unless a woman has an eating disorder or is...some kind of career athlete she will likely have a little fat at the bottom of her stomach because of baby making. Sorry men, if you want stomachs that look like yours date men. Women have no need to kill themselves or die so you can feel they are worthy having your dick in them. Besides, women of all shapes are so sexy, (this from the perspective, too, of someone who is attracted to them) so op, try not to worry and if someone cares well, at least you know theyre an asshole early on.

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  10. ahaha, everyone is so offended by this post, and that is so funny. women of all shapes and sizes are beautiful, but men... if they are not over 6 feet, 6 pack (or toned near it), plus potential to make 6 figures, they are not attractive at all..

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    1. Wtf are you talkig about plz see seth rogan kevin james all those bro guys ed sheeran. Guys of various weights heigbts etc. Men can be attractive to women socially at any size as long as theyre funny or sweer or are a good person. Look at age and attractiveness for fucks sake-beig a cougar is still considered an anomoly and guys who date cougars usually only see it in the short term. But if a guy wants to date a fat woman-hes a chubby chaser fetishist. Like wtf? I know tons of women who like larger chubby guys and pretty much zero guys who would openly say theyd date a fat woman. Dont play the poor men game good lord. Maybe some women arr atrracted to fit men but it is by no means a standars as strongly applied as to women especially cobsidering the wealth of chubby guys in hollywood vs melissa mccarthy who will never be a lead in a romance that is taken seriously.

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    2. I don't count .1% exceptions as a norm, and neither should you.

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    3. Don't be ridiculous 10, there are far harsher standards for women than men. Just look on any TV show, the guys are mostly normal and the women are mostly stunning. Probably the only factor where men have it worse is height.

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    4. Is TV your source of reality?

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    5. yeah pretty much, it is still the biggest primary mass cultural medium

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    6. huh... that makes this argument significantly mundane then.

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  11. A little bit of belly fat is fine. I have dated girls with rock hard abs, bit of belly fat, and a chubby girl. I think they all were beautiful. Sex with one girl with a bit of belly fat was the best, but she was also into some awesome kinky stuff.

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  12. I don't think it's possible for a girl to get "rock hard abs" without being on something, I'm thinking visible 6-pack.
    A flat stomach is very possible, just eat less

    Source: an anorexic

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    1. Yes, it's possible.
      Firstly, "rock hard abs" have nothing to do with a visible 6-pack. Any female powerlifter or olympic lifter has abs that are "rock hard".
      As I mentioned above, visible abs for most women require a body fat percentage below 15 which is difficult to obtain/maintain but definitely achievable naturally.

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