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QUESTION: What is the best way to find a friends with benefits? (female looking for guy) Don't want to try with any of my current friends, and trying to avoid assholes.

16 comments

  1. if you're good looking, give people the eyes

    if not, try tinder and swipe everyone right LOL

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  2. i would offer myself, but i'm too busy this term

    better just stick to porn instead

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  3. Just go talk to a guy that you find attractive... then bring him to your place and fuck? You've got a vagina, so this will probably work.

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    1. Seriously... if you're mildly attractive this will work.

      Damn, sometimes I wish I was a woman.

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    2. How do you know this will work if you're not a woman? I'm a woman and this hasn't worked for me. I'm not particularly ugly either.

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    3. @3b do you mean you brought them back to your place and there was no fucking or you failed to bring them back?

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    4. 3c) Said they wanted to be just friends because it would complicate things otherwise - I even said I didn't want anything serious.

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    5. Was it someone you knew? That would explain why it didn't work. In one psych study a confederate (of opposite gender to the targets) went around campus and said to random people "I find you very attractive, wanna..."

      1) Go out tonight on a date?
      2) Come to my apartment tonight?
      3) Sleep with me tonight?

      For females who said yes: 1: 49% 2: 6% 3: 0%
      For men who said yes: 1: 60% 2: 69% 3: 75%

      Sample size was large, something like over a hundred people, I think.

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    6. 3e) That's silly. I'm a girl and I would want to say yes to an attractive guy if he did that but I definitely wouldn't (especially if I was with friends or near other people that might've heard what was happening) because it's much more awkward for a female to do that sort of thing. Even if I was alone, I'd be worried it was some sort of prank and that they'd be like "ha! we got you on tape saying yes to having sex with some strange guy! you must be really desperate and/or slutty!"

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  4. nice shoes, wanna fuck continuously with no emotional attachment?

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  5. easy, don't look or smell like a bag of shit.

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  6. 3b. You must be ugly then, for sure.

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  7. You are on a campus with thousands of horny guys. Getting FWB is the easiest thing in the world lol Just ask them

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  8. Just text me ;)

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  9. Don't listen to the above advice OP. Why don't you want to try one of your current friends? A lot of people forget about the friends part in an agreement like this. If you're set on finding someone new, I'd suggest hanging out with them a couple times first and then turn it into that. Don't just throw that idea out there the first time you hangout with them. That discussion comes after you've slept with them the first time. The way you meet the person is up to you. But invite them back to your place and things should naturally happen if you're giving off the right signals (be playful, very flirtatious, touchy) and the guy will do the rest.

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