I'd wait for him to express some sign of potential interest, and if he hadn't asked me out yet I'd probably just ask him to hang out but try to make it sound casual.
I believe in karma. I believe in all the advantages that females have (love and attention from anyone they want at the slightest gesture, suitors every day, compliments every day, etc...) is made equal by pregnancy. I'll take buying you a 3 dollar drink over 9 months of pregnancy. On the opposite, for men, I think all their "problems with woman" doesn't even equal pregnancy. I'll take rejection over labor. Finally, the unlimited female orgasm is a gift for, once again, pregnancy and monthly vagina bleedings. Basically, it evens out.
6a - 1. You sound like a butthurt virgin nerd. None of the guys I ever went out with "[bought me] a 3 dollar drink" (where are drinks even three dollars? Phil's? ...?). You have completely missed the point: any human being, male or female, should have the confidence to go and take what he or she wants from the world. Perhaps some women approach men as equals and don't form relationships completely predicated on idiotic societal constructs and expectations of what relationships ought to look like. Maybe, I mean.
2. You make rejection sound like a legitimate fear. Man the fuck up. Some people get rejected more than others. Some people have charm, charisma, looks, and intelligence. Some people are basement-dwelling virgin nerds who have "problems with woman [sic]". Nature doesn't care what you think you deserve.
3. Your obsession with pregnancy is concerning.
4. When you get your first girlfriend maybe she'll teach you a bit about "the unlimited female orgasm"...
5. 'I'll take rejection over labor" - I know you're referring to labour during pregnancy, but I thought this was a beautiful and very succinct way of defining an interesting modern problem with many twenty-something university students. "Labour" in general is how you obtain character. Men who routinely avoid building character because they don't like getting their nails dirty should look forward to a lifetime of rejection by intelligent females.
I asked out a guy once, though I didnt expect much from it. He said he wanted to be friends, which was fine with me. The second guy I "asked out" (implicitly) is now my long term boyfriend.
Nope. I don't think I ever would. I very firmly believe that the guy should do the asking. I've asked the people I'm already dating on dates if that counts.
I've considered asking guys out, but I'm scared of rejection so I doubt I ever will. I express interest, but I ultimately wait for the guy to do the asking.
I consider myself above average and have asked a couple of guys out. There's no use in pining over someone if you've never even attempted to be together.
Every guy I've been with (four?) I asked out. Honestly, it's way easier than being asked out by creeps who don't want to take no for an answer. It would be cool if someone I was interested in asked me out, but I'm not convinced it will happen. Besides, I like that feeling of having control... acting as opposed to being acted upon.
I'd say I'm slightly above average attractiveness for an asian female, dating an caucasian guy is at least slightly above average attractiveness (I say at least due to friends' comments of going 'wow he's hot' when we started dating, I personally think he's gorgeous).
I actually made the first move and started the whole dating process, since we were already good friends after just a couple months and so extra obvious interest had to shown. Still dating now, a few years later. It's a solid relationship, with complete trust and respect, and a lot of laughter.
no. im highly average if that.
ReplyDeletei know one
ReplyDeleteshe got rejected LOL
I'd wait for him to express some sign of potential interest, and if he hadn't asked me out yet I'd probably just ask him to hang out but try to make it sound casual.
ReplyDeleteI would consider myself average.
ReplyDeleteTold a guy I had feelings for him but got no response.
Us guys pretty much need this:
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asked out 4 and got 4 awesome and very different relationships out of it. I know no fear.
ReplyDeleteI believe in karma. I believe in all the advantages that females have (love and attention from anyone they want at the slightest gesture, suitors every day, compliments every day, etc...) is made equal by pregnancy. I'll take buying you a 3 dollar drink over 9 months of pregnancy. On the opposite, for men, I think all their "problems with woman" doesn't even equal pregnancy. I'll take rejection over labor. Finally, the unlimited female orgasm is a gift for, once again, pregnancy and monthly vagina bleedings. Basically, it evens out.
Deletelol @ karma
Deleteyou're assuming every woman wants to get pregnant
you're assuming all men are wired the same way and take emotional trauma equally well
you're pretty stupid
6a - 1. You sound like a butthurt virgin nerd. None of the guys I ever went out with "[bought me] a 3 dollar drink" (where are drinks even three dollars? Phil's? ...?). You have completely missed the point: any human being, male or female, should have the confidence to go and take what he or she wants from the world. Perhaps some women approach men as equals and don't form relationships completely predicated on idiotic societal constructs and expectations of what relationships ought to look like. Maybe, I mean.
Delete2. You make rejection sound like a legitimate fear. Man the fuck up. Some people get rejected more than others. Some people have charm, charisma, looks, and intelligence. Some people are basement-dwelling virgin nerds who have "problems with woman [sic]". Nature doesn't care what you think you deserve.
3. Your obsession with pregnancy is concerning.
4. When you get your first girlfriend maybe she'll teach you a bit about "the unlimited female orgasm"...
5. 'I'll take rejection over labor" - I know you're referring to labour during pregnancy, but I thought this was a beautiful and very succinct way of defining an interesting modern problem with many twenty-something university students. "Labour" in general is how you obtain character. Men who routinely avoid building character because they don't like getting their nails dirty should look forward to a lifetime of rejection by intelligent females.
6. lol
I asked out a guy once, though I didnt expect much from it. He said he wanted to be friends, which was fine with me.
ReplyDeleteThe second guy I "asked out" (implicitly) is now my long term boyfriend.
Nope. I don't think I ever would. I very firmly believe that the guy should do the asking. I've asked the people I'm already dating on dates if that counts.
ReplyDeleteI've considered asking guys out, but I'm scared of rejection so I doubt I ever will. I express interest, but I ultimately wait for the guy to do the asking.
ReplyDeleteI consider myself above average and have asked a couple of guys out. There's no use in pining over someone if you've never even attempted to be together.
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty average, but I asked my boyfriend out. Go for it! Srsly, if he rejects you, he wasn't worth it anyway.
ReplyDelete"if he rejects you, he wasn't worth it anyway."
DeleteYou're trying to be helpful but how can I take that seriously?
Every guy I've been with (four?) I asked out. Honestly, it's way easier than being asked out by creeps who don't want to take no for an answer. It would be cool if someone I was interested in asked me out, but I'm not convinced it will happen. Besides, I like that feeling of having control... acting as opposed to being acted upon.
ReplyDeleteI'm sleeping with my landlord if that counts.
ReplyDeleteI would consider myself above average and haven't asked anyone out. I will express interest but I prefer the man to ask me out.
ReplyDeleteI really wish I could but i'm too shy to approach.
ReplyDeleteI'd say I'm slightly above average attractiveness for an asian female, dating an caucasian guy is at least slightly above average attractiveness (I say at least due to friends' comments of going 'wow he's hot' when we started dating, I personally think he's gorgeous).
ReplyDeleteI actually made the first move and started the whole dating process, since we were already good friends after just a couple months and so extra obvious interest had to shown. Still dating now, a few years later. It's a solid relationship, with complete trust and respect, and a lot of laughter.