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Updated on Wednesday, April 16

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QUESTION: Do you believe in fate?
There is this guy that I have passed by on 3 different occasions in 3 very different places near campus.

The logical part of me: He is also a student of UW, of course you'll see him in & around campus.

The irrational part of me: This is a sign. There are thousands of students in UW. You two are supposed to happen!

Meanwhile: I don't know who he is or anything about him, except he is gorgeous.

16 comments

  1. I wouldn't call that fate. I bet you pass the same random people near campus all the time and don't notice. Seeing someone 3 times isn't odd. Actually running into them, having to talk to them, end up in the same class, grabbing his coffee order by mistake, ending up at the same party etc etc MIGHT count as fate if a bunch of those types of events happen.

    But simply seeing them around/near campus - no.

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  2. Take it as a sign. Whether it's fate or not, the fact that you've noticed him is a sign you like him. So, next time you see him, why not say hello?

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  3. Agreed with 2, there are probably lots of students you pass by but never notice. The fact that you noticed him so many times clearly means you're attracted to him.

    If you can, strike up a conversation with him next time!

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  4. who cares if it's fate

    why don't you go talk to him if you like what you see?

    so stupid

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  5. No. What about that ugly kid with 2 thumbs on each hand and a lopsided smile that you never notice, but always crosses paths with you? Are you two meant to happen too?

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  6. I feel like this is a little late in the term. If you don't know him personally how do you expect to hit it off? Also, given the limited amount of times you've seen him, it wouldn't hurt to make him think about you a little, would it?

    Do something to introduce yourself to him, and then just.. go with the flow.

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  7. Look at yourself in the mirror and ask yourself if you are gorgeous? If the guy is as good looking as you say he is, you have to be his level or above to even think of dating him.

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    1. Strongly disagree. Not everyone is looking for "hot ass tap", as the kids are saying these days.

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    2. @8a that was just based on my observations. I have just never seen a relationship with the guy being a lot better looking than the girl and it lasting very long.

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  8. This all sounds way too familiar, except in my case the guy was not at all interested and it took me a pathetically long time to figure it out. I would try to forget about this guy unless you physically run into each other again or you decide to make a move.
    Sorry if that sounds bleak!

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  9. You pass many people many times.
    You only remember this one because you find him attractive.

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  10. Ugh I hope it works for you OP, mostly because it would make the hopeless romantic in me smile!

    Maybe you'll see him next term :)

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  11. You just want his dick

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  12. Why does it need to be fate? If you're attracted to him, say "hi". If he stops and talks to you, then maybe it is fate or whatever. If he just carries on, carry on with your life and I suppose check if there are any MCs from him.

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