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Updated on Wednesday, April 9

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QUESTION: What type of girl never gets asked out? because I've never been asked out and i just don't get why. Random people I don't even know will go out of their way to compliment me on how pretty I am but no one ever asks me out. I just don't get it.

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  2. You are too pretty for your own good. I would be too intimidated to ask out a smoking hot bombshell. But, then again the only proof I have of you being pretty are your own words.

    Pluralistic Ignorance. I have a psych final tomorrow .__.

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    1. you're fooling no one with your identity, *cough* 1. ;D

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    2. Agreed with 2. People ask out those who they think are on their level. Which means you have better chances if you're a cutesy next door type of girl, than a real hottie.

      It also depends on the circles you hang out in. Hate to stereotype, but when I hang out with guys in arts, I've been asked out several times. I've NEVER been asked out by any guy in my program (because they are shy)

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  3. i assume i dont get asked out because i have resting bitch face

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    1. oh lord i find these types of posts so hilarious

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  4. It might be the program you're in? If you're in an Engineering or Math/CS program, for example, maybe guys are too timid to try.

    My 2¢ as a CS major.

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  5. Do you flirt with guys? Do guys ever ask for your number? I think without knowing you well enough ahead of time not many guys would really ask you out on a date. Maybe you could try getting to know more people?

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    1. Agree with this! If you are interested (don't go doing this to everyone), show a little interest to the guy you like.

      Even so... if you're reeeeally hot, he still might be intimidated, haha.

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  6. Why don't you ask them out instead? Mind = blown

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    1. BOOOOOOOOOOOOM GOeS THE DYNAMITE

      Stupid women thinking it's a duty of a male to initiate a date.

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    2. Stupid humans, turning a reasonable question into an opportunity to bash all women! Good job guys, keep up the good fight.

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    3. +1000000000000000000000000000

      Not trying to bash women. But I hate this dynamic that has occurred where women just lazily wait for things to happen. Its a waste of time for both parties. This way guys are also quite unaware of if a girl actually likes them or not. TAKE INITIATIVE!

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  7. not gonna ask u out unless we have chemistry + you look good

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  8. I assume I dont get out because of my general unattractiveness and dull personality.

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  9. If they are going out of their way to compliment you, take it as them asking you on a date

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    1. No. Don't do this.

      Take it instead as an opportunity to keep talking with them and see if they are interested. Saying "oh, thanks" and letting them walk away without trying to initiate a conversation won't make you any friends. But you shouldn't assume they are asking you out just because they complimented you.

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  10. Maybe they do it in a way that you don't really notice? I'm mostly the opposite...sometimes guys ask me out and I purposely act like it doesn't sound like they're asking me out because I don't want to be assuming....also they're usually not who I'd want to go out with...but if they are it's too good to be true. AHHH

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  11. I had a very enlightening conversation with some male friends of mine once who explained that when they go out to the bar they avoid the girls they consider best looking because they think they will have a better chance with girls who look "easy" (clearly putting the cleavage and what not on display) and/or girls who look average. They assume a classy gorgeous lady is more likely to turn them down and they don't want a high risk of rejection so they don't even bother. This applied to guys trying to take a girl home and some who just wanted to meet someone. However if a beautiful girl were to make conversation with them first they said they would go for her. So perhaps, if you fall into this intimidatingly beautiful category all you need to do is strike up a conversation with a guy and subtly show him you're interested and not going to laugh at him if he asks you out.

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  12. I almost exclusively go after cute looking girls. Not a fan of what people would consider hotter girl, doesn't mean I wouldn't but I prefer cute.

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  13. I've never been asked out. Prolly because I'm a dude.

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