OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Tuesday, April 8


QUESTION: Do you think love is a choice?


  1. No, but choosing to act on it and work on a relationship is.

    1. +1
      I don't think how you feel is a choice. But what you do with those feelings is completely within your control.

  2. why dont u read up on the psychology and neuroscience of "love" and then come back and see if you still have any questions

  3. Yes and no.
    You can't change who you're attracted to/have feelings for initially, but you choose to love. You choose to open up/be vulnerable to someone. You choose to accept someone as they are. You choose to work hard every day at the relationship for the chance at love. You choose to work hard because of love. Without consciously making those decisions, you can't truly love someone...

  4. Subconsciously, yes, but you can't really control your subconscious, so no, or can you? I'm confounded. Good job OP you fucking asshole. I'm gonna have to spend time thinking about this now...