Updated on Thursday, April 3
QUESTION: Is it a thing to be looked over at UW because you're "so wonderful" that
you're actually intimidating? I've been talking to this person for the
longest time, and word on the street is they're totally into me, but
won't take it a step further because I'm "so nice" and "such a great
person"... whut?
Sounds like dude's a pussy...
ReplyDeleteOr chick for that matter
DeleteHe is a beta bitch, she is looking for an alpha cock.
DeleteWhat is this beta alpha stuff?
DeleteVery insecure manchildren.
DeleteThere are alpha males, these guys are obvious. You know, the goodlooking cocky arrogant assholes that get all the pussy.
DeleteThen there are betas (and lower), that will never get any because they act like little bitches ("too nice", etc)
One gets laid, the other gets friendzoned.
^ Thanks for enlightening the ignorant. Maybe this will help "white knights" see how the game is actually played; but then again, we're talking about blind idealists here who will continue to do the same thing despite being spurned on a continual basis...
DeleteIts ok, once they hit 30 these women will settle for the betas (because the alphas wont settle for the women).
DeleteThe betas will be happy just to get a taste of the pussy even though it had cocks constantly rammed inside of it over the last decade. They will be none the wiser.
I used to have that mindset, thinkin that a girl will like you because of how good a person you are. No, they just think you are weak. I used to think love was enough. Its not. Most people will never realize this.
Some days I wish I never realized the truth, you know so I could actually believe in "love".
1.g speaks the truth. I used to be nicer to girls when I met them and tried to be friends but that never worked. Now I just put girls in the girlfriend zone and if they don't fuck me I don't talk to them. Add that and be a bit of an asshole and all of a sudden you keep getting girlfriends. Soon as you're bored with the girl you move on. Working well so far.
Delete1h, you're missing the perfect middle ground, assuming you want a long term relationship. If you want to keep doing what you are doing (lots of quick flings), then what you are saying will work.
DeleteIf you are looking for a relationship, just make moves quickly, stand up for yourself, don't be a pussy, and if a girl isn't interested, move on. The OP is doing NONE of these things.
Damn am I glad more people see it this way. I've stopped bringing it up because people generally react badly.
DeleteThe truth hurts, and most guys dont want to admit that girls just dont give a fuck about them. Assholes get the girl, this is why.
It sounds like you little boys don't need girls as you like to prefer to suck each other's cock on anonymous forums. Sad really.
Delete^ Go suck your bf's cock and make him a sammich. I think he's calling you.
Delete^beta comment
DeleteThis beta alpha shit sounds stupid as fuck. People actually look this far into stuff? Guys like you set men back
DeleteHey Alpha pricks, good luck finding a girl who will love you.
DeleteLol here come the white knight fags.
DeleteIf you can't see how obviously true it is then you are probably retarded
Delete^Fortunate that you only need your mouth for sucking off your friend which leaves the hands free to type. :)
Delete^ Why u mad doe?
Delete1o here. I'm a girl, & I'm telling you that I find this alpha crap positively appalling. I will not sleep with you, let alone have a relationship.
Delete^ Uggos don't count...
DeleteAnother girl here. Anyone who considers themselves to be 'alpha' or judges others on how alpha they are is clearly insecure (and beta for that matter).
DeleteI don't doubt the existence of guys who fit the label. I've met a handful of charismatic, smart guys that take good care of their bodies, but I have never heard any of them refer to themselves as alpha or try to insult the manliness of those around them. If they did then I can assure you I would be running fast in the opposite direction because arrogance is the absolute least attractive trait anyone can possess in my eyes. Confident, well-rounded guys ("alpha" as you say) have no need to feel superior to others. They don't need to tell people "alpha males like me are awesome, you're beta and you suck" because they are already confident in themselves. They are too busy improving themselves to insult the efforts of others. Not to mention that part of being an ideal human is being nice. If you are strong and confident but you still act like a cocky entitled asshole, you are not alpha. You are beta and bitter.
On top of that, so many guys fall into the delusion that muscles mean alpha, and once you get more ripped the girls will just fall all over you. Gaining muscle will help attract girls sexually, but if you're looking to keep them around for more than one night you will also need a likeable personality. Consider that maybe the reason women don't want to be with you is not because you lack a six pack, but because you're rude and treat them as though they require a psychological instruction manual.
Another girl here. I wanted to write a reply to this thread this morning, but I couldn't really put my thoughts into words.
Delete1v summed it up pretty nicely though. +1 to her!
1o here ... you took my words right out of my mouth 1v!
Delete^ Y'all are basically corroborating the original point. The only difference is semantics...
Delete^ Exactly, they just proved the point and don't even know it.
DeleteWe don't get these idea's from men, we find these truths by observing women.
I'm agreeing to the original point that alpha males attract more women, but I'm also agreeing to 1t's point that people who get preoccupied with it and bring how beta or alpha something is into everything are insanely unattractive. I am also pointing out that mocking people's masculinity and calling them beta is not a very alpha thing to do.
DeleteIf you're so concerned about being intimidating, why don't you just make the first move?
ReplyDeletethe fuck?
ReplyDeleteIt's an excuse. The person likes you, but not enough to want to date you. So they are trying to be nice about it.
ReplyDeleteOP, you've been friendzoned.
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ReplyDeleteYou are a wuss and they think of you like a female friend.
ReplyDeleteEnd topic
It's a thing that people may think they're "below you" and won't approach you.
ReplyDeleteIt's also entirely possible they're not interested.
To answer your question directly, its not a thing. There is a very specific reason they don't want to date you and its not because you're awesome.
ReplyDeleteHate to break it to you OP, but it's code for "he's not that into you."
ReplyDeleteStfu op. U prolly ugly
ReplyDeleteHA! Love the Beta/Alpha convo.
ReplyDeleteAs an average female, I'm not into cocky alphas, they waste my time. All I need is a sweet outgoing guy and my attention is caught.
11. - Do you feel better now? Good. Now learn how to spell before you go dissing the beauty of someone you never met.
Look OP, if something's holding him back, make a move. If he still doesn't budge, move on. Plenty of other fish in the sea.
STFU 11. Your comment is invalid.
ReplyDeleteNo more beta/alpha shit.
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