OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Tuesday, April 1

#6228

QUESTION: Why is a woman having ambition/starting a career scary for a guy??

59 comments

  1. I won't date any one who doesn't have ambition or wants to start a career

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  2. It's not.
    /thread

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  3. I cannot stand being with someone who is always trying to compete with me and my ambitions. That is the reason I never date anyone from my faculty.

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  4. Hypergamy. Eventually she may see you as beneath her and begin seeking another mate.

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    1. oh, so because he frequents /r/theredpill

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    2. WTF is /r/theredpill?

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    3. theredpill is a subreddit full of mysogynistic men who believe in "evolutionary psychology", that all women are dumb sluts and need to be put in their place, and that accepting this will make you a casa nova in the dating world and you'll get to stick your dick into those people you (paradoxically) hate with such a passion.

      "hypergamy" and shit like that is commonly mentioned on TRP

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  5. Theres a lot of men who would rather their wive's ambitions be to raise their children

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    1. I hate people like you.

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    2. @5c I'm a girl stating a fact, not a guy who thinks this way

      Unless you were talking about my horrendous grammar or something

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  6. I don't find that scary? Quite the opposite, actually.

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  7. It's not its incredibly sexy

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  8. As a female who has started a successful career after graduating, every time I tell a guy about my career, they always become instantly more interested in me (unless they don't have a career of their own- then they seem more intimidated and shortly after try to end the conversation).

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  9. For the same reason that a girl having a dick would be scary for a guy.

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    1. What the fuck. A career ≠ a penis. Ambition ≠ a penis.

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    2. Some old school brahs associate career orientation with manliness. Maybe you should enlighten them. Make them a sandwich while you do this so they are more likely to listen to what you say :).

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    3. You KNOW this is true.

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    4. You guys are weirdos... that doesn't even make sense.

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    5. ^ Your retardation does not preclude this statement from making sense brah...

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    6. Sure thing brah, have fun with your hand.

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    7. ^ I get regular pussy brah. Shame I probably can't say the same about your "knight in shining armour" sorry ass...

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    8. y u so mad brah? sexually deprived much?

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    9. Not mad brah. Just spreading truth. You're the one talking about being mad and sexual deprivation brah. It's k brah. You'll make it. I believe in you brah :). Go worship some slut now brah. You'll make it.

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    10. ^ Yah...your stupidity is making me sooooo mad brah. Agghhh. Please smarten up brah. Your retardation is gonna kill me brah....

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    11. lol so mad. you gettin your jimmies a little rustled there breh?

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    12. ^ Thanks for being so fixated on me and 'mirin my nuts, but I'm not into phaggy times brah...laterz...

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    13. u r a passive aggressive aspie. u need 2 get urself educated. enjoy crying about how ur gonna fail exams as u finger ur butthole tonight

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    14. ^ Don't have a heart attack brah...here's a chill pill...

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    15. thought you were leaving... u too mad? does not getting the last post make little baby angwy?

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    16. Here's a lollypop brah, you're starting to talk like you're 2...

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    17. thanks broseph, i love lollipops. only you spelled it wrong you downie retard.

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    18. Oooh...he can spell. Ain't he the cutest thing. Here's a star you little smartie...

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    19. awww thanks, but it's not that big of a accomplishment really. a braindead monkey could've done it. truly a task only an incompetent idiot would fail at. and lmfao, didn't you say bye like 6 posts ago? someone's maaaaaaaaaaaad

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    20. .....but...you're wrong. Both are valid ways of spelling it. Good try. Sorry if you got excited....

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    21. looooooooool took you that fucking long to google it eh?

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    22. LOL nah. I just wanted to let you gloat before ripping you to shreds brah...it's more fun that way

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    23. Refer to the ellipsis ending my statement prior to that blind fag

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    24. lmfao. oh i'm so hurt. so hurt i could almost laugh at how pathetically gullible and easily provokable you are.

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    25. you spelled elipsis wrong too you fucking drooling moron

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    26. I wanted to have fun and blow off some steam. I don't give a fuck about how hurt you are or aren't either way...Go ahead and keep pulling conclusions out of your ass. I had my fun either way...brah.

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    27. you admitted it urself brah. you wanted to blow off some steam cause YOU MAAAAAAAAAAAD

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    28. http://grammar.ccc.commnet.edu/grammar/marks/ellipsis.htm

      Anything else you wanna teach me or have I exposed your ignorance enough for today?

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    29. Yah from your stupidity. Makes me lose faith in humanity brah *rages*.

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    30. lmfao. you fucking gullible dumbass.
      and since you asked so nicely, i do have something else that i think you need:
      http://www.ezschool.com/grade1/english/
      i know it's a bit tough buddy but just start out slow and you'll get it eventually

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    31. Sorry brah grade 1 was years ago for me; I know you love to learn grade 1 English, but I'm way past that. You might find better company in elementary school. Good try though. 10/10 for effort...srs.

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    32. Honey... be real with yourself here. Nobody likes a liar.

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    33. Wishing is a good thing. Maybe if you wish on a star, it'll make it true. Good luck brah!

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    34. You poor soul. You know it really seems as though you need to seek medical help. I don't think subtly crying out for help on omguw is really what's best for you at this point. Try booking an appointment with counseling. Hopefully they can help you work on your issues. Best of luck xx

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    35. Counselling.*

      Irony is a bitch isn't it? Good night :)!

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  10. I think it is more attractive simply because there are certain characteristics in order to pursue a career that I look for in a person. If I know that you are able to land a solid job, it probably also means that you are financially capable, professional, able to make rational decisions and discussions, and generally that given the overall instability of the market, it would make having a family more secure. What is the downside? Having more money to settle earlier? Needing to make dinner every so often (I don't mind)? In reality, I don't see any reason for this to be off-putting.

    Just my 2c

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    1. Marry me please.

      - Career driven girl

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    2. Honestly I'll probably need to. I need some financial security as I pursue untold wealth through materials research (that is currently a poorly paid field)

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    3. Haha love your honesty. Would still marry you 11 ;)

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