Updated on Monday, March 10
QUESTION: I am a female and have been having sex pretty consistently for about 2 years, but I want to get better at it. My boyfriend doesn't really know what to suggest, as I'm the only person he's been with, so he has nothing to compare it to. What makes sex great for guys? What kinds of moves or positions truly make you think a girl is a "good lay"?
I'm pretty it would really depend on the guy, everyone has their own preferences. But I doubt any man could say no to an awesome BJ.
ReplyDeleteCommunication! If he's not experienced than it can be just ongoing "this feel better?". That and let him know what feels good. If he slightly changes position and it makes it better then let him KNOW. It might feel awkward at first but its the only way to figure each other out past the obvious. I've been with a few girls and my current relationship is the absolute best for sex because she's vocal and I know for sure when its time to commit to something and take it home.
ReplyDeleteListen to 2! You need to let him know what you like, also if he is like me throw yourself at his dick. If I paused during sex my GF tends to start thrusting back (doggy) and it's a huge turn on knowing she wants it. Make him feel like a king, that usually helps guys. Also play with your chest if he's on top, give him something to enjoy. Wrap your legs around him and pull him in.
Delete2 here. 2a, are you me?
Deletewatch some porn and get creative
ReplyDelete^this is how I became a semi-pornstar. Or tell the guy to watch more porn... it's really hard for just one person to make the sex great, especially when the girl is the one really trying. Ofc, imo
Deleteporn might give you creative ideas, but that's about it. don't assume anything in porn is realistic.
DeleteSwish and flick
ReplyDeleteWingardium Leviosa. Make that stick rise, girl!
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