OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Sunday, March 9

#6071

QUESTION: Where does one meet girls in this city that is not a club/bar? I've been single for 7 months and it's near impossible for me to find anything casual/short-term (graduating this term). I've used POF/OkCupid in the past and it worked for a bit, but it's been no use recently. Tinder is hopeless. I'm a relatively decent looking ambitious personable guy, but I have had no luck. I'm also too introverted/shy to cold approach a girl.

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  1. i dont mean to sound terrible, but 7 months isn't a long time. i have been without a relationship forever aka i have never been in a relationship.
    im not a hideous girl, but i don't hang out at bars or clubs, not into the drinking scene and am very very very inexperienced so would never approach anyone out of nowhere. it happens.

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    1. I'd approach you.

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    2. So smooth, 1a. So smooth.

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    3. haha if only this was real life 1a.

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    4. Who's saying it can't? I'll see you tomorrow

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  2. Try studying in cafes. It's easier to start a conversation by asking a girl to watch your stuff, pretending she seems familiar, etc. Huether's my favourite- good vibe and more social than other cafes. Plus, if things go well, you can invite her to one of the bars for a drink :)

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    2. OP said "I'm also too introverted/shy to cold approach a girl."

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