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Updated on Tuesday, February 18

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QUESTION: For anyone who has ever done cold approaches on girls, can you give me a success to failure ratio?

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  1. This depends completely on who you approach, when/where, and how creepy you are.

    Be respectful and don't scare the shit out of her and it could go really well.

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  2. So far I'm 1 per 1, but that was in Frosh week so people are kind of expecting to be approached by strangers, as no one knows anybody

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  3. I feel sorry for you. Be a good person and make friends instead of soliciting people for sex on the street like a crazy person.

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    1. holy shit so many assumptions

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    2. ^Referring to going after girls like a corporate salesman trying to make commission? What can I possibly be wrong on? OP is a twat who's fallen victim to nonsense known as PUA. A cancer and scorge on the streets. There are already enough crazies on the street. Have a reason to know someone.

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    3. um..chill out. doesn't mean the OP only wants sex. jeeze and I thought I was uptight.

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    4. Lul, #4 just made so many assumptions. I don't have any trouble meeting girls. I meet girls through my friends that are girls. It's easier for me than cold-approaching since I get to stay in my comfort zone. In this way, I also get to know a girl before asking her out.

      I simply wanted to know whether guys who cold-approach actually have adequate success with it. Thank you to the girls that gave me advice on approaching, even though I don't need it.

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  4. As a girl, I would say look at some of Simple Pickup on Youtube videos.. not only are they hilarious but they more or less know what they're doing. And if you're too lazy here is what I would say:
    -always make some sort of conversation before directly asking a girl out or for her number
    -if you don't know what to say, just ask her a question; the hardest part is breaking the ice. If you're in a coffee shop line ask her what coffee she recommends or food, or even ask about school
    -even the most 'good-looking' guys will likely get rejected more often than not, if she says she has a boyfriend or isn't looking for a relationship don't take it so personally, she may have just been caught off guard
    -to practice it would be good to start making conversation with strangers, regardless of whether you want to ask them out on a date or not just to build your comfort level

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  5. As a girl, when guys do this to me I think it's great - unless the person seems desperate and expectant or overconfident. There is a humble medium that works quite well. I actually wish this happened more often in day to day life. it's pretty fun. It doesn't need to be really serious or a pickup. Sometimes it's just nice to interact with other people on this campus.

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  6. I guess it's fine as long as you give people a lot of opportunities to disengage. Just remember, a lot of girls aren't single/not interested and here you go forcing yourself on them when they might have completely different things on their mind. Overall I would advise against.

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  7. 11%. 1 in 9 girls that a successful pua meets will bang him. Woman love intrigue and credibility... They want a safe but a thrilling rollercoastee ride! They don't buy what you think you are selling... It's not the words themselves... It is the confidence....pinash! It is a hustle.... It is a muscle you have to exercise! One rule to follow, you never get credit for playing by her rules.... I only want sex from woman right therefore.. It is a numbers game... For all the emotions they are capable of... the emotions of pleasure they put on for men while they are deduced and in the middle of passionate sex is by far the best......

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