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QUESTION: What is the most important factor that makes someone good in bed? State for males and for females.

21 comments

  1. Hm, really hard to actually single out one thing.
    I think the unifying characteristic for all of my "better" (for lack of a better adjective) partners was confidence. Knowing what you want but also being sensitive to your partner's needs goes a long way.
    Being open to experimentation doesn't hurt either. I am yet to see someone who is into kink and is "bad" in bed.

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    1. RL... 1)no one likes you. 2)the closest you have come to touching a vagina is a taco (and not the pink taco)

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    2. @1a unless RL was born cesarean, he has indeed touched a vagina.

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    3. @1a. Someone's insecure about being a virgin, aren't they buddy? :<

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    4. @b: That's...actually pretty good...

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    5. ^what he meant to say was that if you were born cesarean you would never have touched a vagina

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    6. ^ Learn some logic, bud =)

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    1. Valid, if one partner is not interested, then you won't connect emotionally with them

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    2. Incorrect, consent does not make anyone good or bad in bed. Read the question.

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  3. I like it when guys go from slow and deep to fast and hard. mmmmm
    Also, grabbing at hands and hips to get a better grip is really hot.

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  4. I've found some girls like it when I put one of their legs on my shoulder, hold their thigh to my body and just start going at her. Some of the time slow and sensual, some of the time hard, deep and fast. I know it's not the exact answer you were looking for, but they just go crazy when I do this.

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    1. Try both legs on shoulders, lean forward and go.

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    2. is it weird that this description got me a little hot?

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  5. For girls, confidence and enjoying what you're doing. For example, the more you enjoy giving blow jobs, the better they will be (usually). And confidence so that you can do sexy things and take initiative instead of just laying there or sitting and moving around a bit.

    Not sure about guys

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  6. When they are always willing to give back? You know, you give me head and I'll give you head? But sometimes I wouldn't really care about reciprocity if I cared about them and just want to give them pleasure.

    But it would be nice.

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  7. Cleveland steam roller

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  8. Not being related.

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  9. dont think. feel. and be hot.

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  10. Chemistry between both partners. If the chemistry is there and both of you have similar sex drives...it's hot all the time ;)

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  11. Someone who has the same kinks as me. I can't date someone if they aren't willing to be dominant. We need to be sexually compatible.

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