OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Saturday, December 28

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QUESTION: Do you tell your significant other every time you get cold approached and asked out? Should you?

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  1. You should tell them if you say yes

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  2. You should tell them, but they shouldn't care...

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    1. whoa tell them every single time?

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  3. I only told my ex of the interesting ones.

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  4. If it was a funny story, sure. No obligation though.

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  5. Never happened to me and I doubt it will happen in the future.

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  6. I once was randomly followed by a guy across campus and when I stopped in a building he came up to me and demanded that I allowed him to take me on a date or at least introduce me to my friends because they must be attractive like me. This is one of the only times where I have been straight up randomly asked out and I did tell my boyfriend about this because it was strange and made me feel uncomfortable but slightly flattered...

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    1. It was prolly an ethnic. Those people are batshit

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    2. 6a so racist but the way you phrased it was shockingly hilarious.

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  7. Yes to your first question. No to your second. No one can tell you what you *should* or *shouldn't* do.

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  8. If you tell them everytime it might make you seem like you're trying to make them jealous, making you look insecure. Who wants to hear from their significant other every day "so the cashier at the convenience store I went to was flirting with me today and the guy I sat next to in class asked me to hang out but I said no because I'm pretty sure he wants to be more than friends." It's really not necessary unless you feel guilty about it because you reciprocated or something.

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    1. THIS. My boyfriend doesn't mind hearing the interesting/funny ones or the ones where I felt really uncomfortable and want to talk to him about it but if you happen to get hit on a lot it's not something you should go on and on about. It's not something your boyfriend wants to think about, that everyone is eye fucking his girl.

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  9. you should tell them. my bf always makes a joke about it :P

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  10. I used to with my ex but it just made him unhappy I think. So I would say that I shouldn't have but for the more interesting ones maybe as long as you make sure he knows you weren't interested at all.

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