OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Monday, December 23

#5619

QUESTION: How do you deal with sexual tension with someone you know it would be a mistake to hook up with?

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  1. Try avoiding them?

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  2. Hook up with someone else

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  3. Just avoid getting into risqué situations with them. I know not to follow a girl into her bedroom while we're both drunk and I have a girlfriend/single but not looking for a relationship with them

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  4. OP here, and female. I can't avoid him - because of our program we see each other every day. Plus we are in the same circle of friends. I will try to find another hookup/distraction... it is almost unbearable.

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    1. As a male, I think its cute that you have "sexual tension" problems and are having problems "dealing with it". Welcome to what it feels like to being a male.

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    2. 5b your neckbeard is smelly. You whiteknight faggot

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    3. OP here, I actually laughed at 5a's comment. This sucks for me right now, so life must be hard for you guys lol.

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    4. @5.c you don't know what a neck beard is you fucking grognard. It's you and 5.a, you two are the neck beards.

      Also only pathetic "nice guy" types have this problem all the time 5.a. Maybe try not pining for every girl who gives you the time of day like a sad puppy?

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  5. OP: I made the mistake in getting into 2 years of bad relationship because I wanted some. Attempt to empty yourself of any sexual energy (e.g. masturbate regularly) and you should find your judgement will improve. Finding someone else to hook up with often doesn't work... just increases the perceived rewards for the other guy...

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    1. Thanks, I will try that. New Years resolution, masturbate more.

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    2. If I make that resolution my dick might fall off. I really need a gf.

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  6. I actually encountered a similar situation as you. I had a lot of tension with a guy I was in a group project with, eventually we had sex and it led to many conflicts. A year later, I can't even look at him in the same way because of how he behaved after the fling - which sucks for me, because we're in a pretty small program and have class together everyday. For a long time my feelings were really hurt, but then I started going out more and meeting new people. Eventually I met this great guy at a party and things have been going well between us for several months. I really wished I had put myself out there sooner, instead of giving in to that guy...

    Also, if any of your friends know some single guys who are a good match for you, you could always ask them to hook you up? I tried that a few times, and while it didn't really "work out" I was at least able to meet some nice people.

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  7. Ah yes, group projects. A source of poon for many years.

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