OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Tuesday, December 10

#5537

QUESTION: Do you need an emotional connection to someone to have sex with them? I know some buddies that can't get it up unless they care for the girl on an emotional level.

Making love vs fucking?

13 comments

  1. No. no emotional connection needed, just attractiveness.

    -female

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  2. It's up whenever I need it to be up.

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  3. Female - No emotional connection needed. Just need someone who is into bdsm and is a dom. I get really bored in vanilla sex.

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  4. My boyfriend started out basically as a fuck buddy and the sex was great. Almost 4 years together now, and being in love definitely adds something to it but so does lots of practice. The thing I need to be able to have sex with a guy is a sense of trust. I don't think I could have ever managed a one night stand and I know I'd never actually get off that way.

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  5. Yes, you NEED TO.
    You are REQUIRED.
    NO EXCEPTIONS.
    It's the law.

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  6. My enjoyment during sex comes from seeing my partner get off, so I have to care about the person on some level. I've tried one night stands, not really my thing, it's essentially borrowing someone else's body to masturbate.

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    1. tru say dawg. are you jaden smith?

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    2. I am a guy and I definitely need some sort of emotional connection. I can't do one night stands. Have gotten 2-3 chances so far and I always said no and walked out.

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    3. Guy too. I had a couple of pre-arranged one night stands (through online dating), and came (haha) to the conclusion that sex with someone I don't care about is not enjoyable at all. Friends with benefits are great though.

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  7. No, if I want to get it up, I will, but my heart won't be in it. I can't do one night stands, but I can do booty calls. One booty call bussed 8 hours to get to me, it was fun, but I didn't have a strong emotional connection. The connection was basically she was just epically hot/cute at the same time, and she had a good personality. Didn't want to really date her because I knew she slept around a bit, wasn't really that bright, and dated a good friend of mine before she became my booty call. I only ever had her in my phone as "booty call", even when she was dating my friend. (We didn't do anything until a bit after they broke up)

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  8. Your "buddy" might be gay if he can't get it up unless he cares about the girl.

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  9. I fuck the girl I care about all the time. We make love all the time too. Balance your fucking and love making and that's some fuckin love ;)

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