OMG UPDATE: Question? Answer.

Updated on Saturday, December 7


QUESTION: How do I know if I am ready to be in a relationship with him? I never dated anyone before. We started out as friends and we recently confessed our feelings for each other but I told him I wanted to take things slowly and he agreed. I know for certain that I really like him but I don't know what's holding me back...How do you guys know if you want to be official? Does it just 'click'?


  1. People need to stop overthinking and over-analyzing relationships. .. don't worry I've been guilty of that too..

    Just do what feels right and always talk to him about stuff..

  2. In past relationships I have never really needed to think about it. I was just their girlfriend from day 1. I feel like recently there has been a shift with the hookup culture where everyone is essentially assumed to be sleeping around, then you date, then you have the talk, where you either become exclusive or you part ways, or continue to be undefined until someone gets bored or finds something better and moves on

    if you want a relationship. talk it out

    1. Oh, as to the official part:

      I was never asked. I just got introduced to other people as the girlfriend by past boyfriends so I guess I started doing the same.

  3. It's a weird concept because some people consider dating just dating, and other people immediately consider it an exclusive, official relationship. It's better to be upfront about it if you want to be considered official (to avoid any misunderstandings).

  4. I'm on the same spittoon.