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Updated on Thursday, December 5

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QUESTION: Thoughts about anal sex? My boyfriend is really interested in trying it, but I've heard about some bad experiences from friends and that has scared me off. What have your experiences been?

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  1. You have to go slow. I can't stress that enough. If he pushes even the slightest even if its ridiculously slow while it is going through/past that muscle it will kill. YOU really have to focus on relaxing and controlling the dick and if it starts to hurt a bit when you're trying to get it in, just pull back out and try it again. Breathe out and relax and go slow until its past that muscle and then you can pretty much give'er.
    That being said, its pretty much always worth the effort.

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  2. Don't forget to use lots and lots of lube, too.

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  3. Like 1 said, 100% worth it once you can get past that initial penetration.

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    1. And take a big shit before. Just to be safe.

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  4. Lots and lots of lube and even more foreplay. Should start with touching/fingering and stuff first.

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  5. Invest in a reasonably sized strap-on.
    You don't want to hurt him

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    1. +1, my bf prefers the 16" black dildo

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    2. He's a keeper =P

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  6. I can't emphasize this enough, but make sure that your bowels have been cleared. Otherwise it will have a sort of plunger effect; things can get messy.
    So go shit beforehand.

    and use lube.

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    1. good god. this is so disgusting. Why would anyone even attempt this?! because it feels good? is regular sex not good enough anymore? I dont even know...

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    2. Yeah I don't quite get the deal with anal.
      I mean, if you're in a hetero relationship then there's a perfectly good hole right there that is adapted to be the ultimate sheath fer the dick. That's why it is called "vagina". Why deal with poop-dick so you can fuck a much much worse hole?

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    1. For the thread, not the question. You people are not selling it to anyone. ..

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  8. My boyfriend really wants to try it too but just the thought of it going in there gives me anxiety because of the pain… Is it reaaallly worth it? How does it even feel for a girl?

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    1. Like taking a shit in reverse, over and over.
      It is better for men because it stimulates the prostate.

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    2. So taking a shit in reverse is a bad feeling, right? I have nothing to compare it to..

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    3. What? But I feel so relieved after taking a shit ...

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  9. If he takes his time there should not be any pain just tightness. He needs to go slow and you need to relax down there, your anxiety will tighten you up like a 2nd grader

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  10. You seem hesitant about whether or not to do this so my advice: If he loves and respects you and you are not willing to do this he should be ok with it. He's lucky to be having regular sex with you. If he keeps pushing it then only agree after he lets you fuck him in the ass with a dildo first (I guess the fair thing to do would be to get one around the same size as his dick). Do unto others....

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    1. ^Why is he lucky to be having sex with her?
      Did he survive the Hunger Games to win her hand in marriage or something? What is she some Lotto 6/49 prize? Were the odds ever in his favour?

      I missed this luck part. Please, enlighten this confused male as to how I can also be so lucky/how this is the case.

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    2. That doesn't make any sense.
      If you don't want to have anal...don't. None of this "if you do A I will do B" crap.

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    3. +1 to 11a and RL

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  11. My bum is exit only

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    1. How do you piss?
      What's the difference?

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    2. RL please tell me you're not implying that women urinate through the same hole as traditional sexual intercourse takes place. If so, then you're a true idiot!

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    3. Does piss not come through your pussy lips?

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    4. piss comes out of the urethra which is a THIRD hole done there (super tiny, so please don't try shoving your dick up there)

      when you screw a vagina, your dick comes nowhere near evidence of pee.
      this entire conversation is useless.. fucking a vagina =/= fucking an asshole. vaginas do no produce piss like buttholes produce feces
      end of story.

      I really hope 12c/RL aren't serious because if they are then I seriously have no words.

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    5. RL is such a fucking fool

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    6. Yes, there definitely is a difference, what I mean is that if you're going at it from a "ew, poop is gross" perspective...you might want to rethink things.
      (Yes, I know that urine is sterile...)

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    7. ur argument is invalid RL!!
      why would i want to rethink things? You just proved absolutely nothing. poop still IS gross.
      I have no idea what you were getting at.

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    8. So...piss is not gross? As long as we've established that.

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    9. WOW RL! that is not it! Piss does not come out of the vagina!! So #12 and every other female in the world pisses through her urethra, not vagina! The only things that come out of a vagina are: babies, period blood, unfertilized eggs, and leftover cum. NO PISS COMES OUT OF THE VAGINA. Get it yet? Look up anatomy of the female reproductive system if you still don't get it. I can't believe I just had to explain this to a university student -_-

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    10. I find in general RL's idea of a good analogy/refutation is something like

      "If you have left your stuff unattended at a cubicle for over an hour I am probably going to have a librarian remove it, then take your spot"

      RL: "Oh, so if I leave my house for an hour or two you would come in and rape my pets then set the house on fire? Great logic bud."

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    11. @j: Alright, alright, I'll admit that this particular analogy was terrible and did not go over well. Allow me to assure you that I am indeed informed on the topic and made the original statement in error. In hindsight, I should have thought for longer than 2 seconds before leaving such a reply.

      @k: Incorrect. Replace "have a librarian remove it" with "steal it" or "give it away to the homeless" and yes, that would sound like my kind of analogy. It sounds absurd but that's the point, the core of "I have my property and you stole/destroyed/defiled it and think it's OK" is still there.
      (Although "cubicle -> house" is not the best analogy so I might not have said that exact thing...I know this is hard to accept right after I made a complete butchery of the female anatomy but sometimes I do think things through)

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    12. k here. RL you usually annoy me but that was a relatively graceful reply.

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  12. Take it easy and you should be fine unless your bf is ridiculously big.

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  13. Get him to try fingering u first in anal. If u like it try penetration. If not dont do it

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  14. If you don't want to try it then don't. You have to be comfortable, if anybody is putting too much pressure then tell him to fuck off, it's your body!

    Personally, I wouldn't do it: it is unhygienic, it could lead to muscle damage in the area which in itself could lead to loss of control over bowl movement (would probably require a lot of rough anal to get to that point but it is a possibility), and it's just unnecessary (I'm not into it so I don't have to do it).

    I've been curious but not enough to put myself through that, there is so much to do with just vaginal sex. If it's not tight enough for your man then maybe his dick is too small. (and as for you, keep doing them kegal exercises)

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